Can First Impressions Be Changed?

[mooch592]

Hello friends,

Question about first impressions. I’ve heard the term “in her eyes, once a beta, always a beta.” Is this true? I know a lot of RSD guys talk about how it’s always possible to reattract a girl (unless you were totally crazy or creepy or something). There’s a few girls that are super hot that are on my list that I’d love to bang, but knew them before I knew anything about game, so I feel like they have weak first impressions of me. One has a boyfriend but she stares at me at work a lot!! It’s honestly weird, it’s almost like she has too much pride to admit she likes me. Then another one was really aggressive and asked me out (a long time ago) but I couldn’t handle it cause I had no game so eventually she lost interest. (I had just moved to NYC, and was not used to getting attention from beautiful women.) Opinions?

 

[Serenity]

Yeah, you can change a first impression. First you gotta forget that they have a first impression, else your knowledge about it will affect you. You need to interact with them as if they knew nothing about the former you, even if they do. Assume that what has happened before is irrelevant and treat it for what it is, an outdated version of yourself.

 

[Sunnypoo]

Better to make a good one, seems like too much work involved with back pedaling.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

No. You cant change a first impression. But you can change an impression later. Dont try to seek validation.

 

[greatsnake]

First impressions are very important. In this society, if you don’t give a good one, you’re out the door.

 

[marmel75]

The longer the time between seeing her up to a year or two the better the chance for a reset...some women it can happen sooner with like a few months...

After two years its pretty much a full reset where you are starting with a clean slate

 

[mrgoodstuff]

The longer the time between seeing her up to a year or two the better the chance for a reset...some women it can happen sooner with like a few months...

After two years its pretty much a full reset where you are starting with a clean slate

Your frame would need reset as well. Ie while she was away you found your balls and had the alpha position with all females since her. She will see it on you. They actually dont think about it much is subconscious.

 

[marmel75]

Your frame would need reset as well. Ie while she was away you found your balls and had the alpha position with all females since her. She will see it on you. They actually dont think about it much is subconscious.

Yeah exactly...you would actually have to BE different for it to make any difference.

 

[greatsnake]

Yeah exactly...you would actually have to BE different for it to make any difference.

I don’t agree. Work on making a good first impression, there are no second chances

 

[Trump]

One has a boyfriend but she stares at me at work a lot!! It’s honestly weird, it’s almost like she has too much pride to admit she likes me.

Or maybe she is trying to memorize your face to describe to the police, in case you try to feel her up.

Everything is a situation. How come you guys never say the situation to your detriment? The situation is always to your benefit, always dealing with hot girls as if we are movie stars.

Then another one was really aggressive and asked me out (a long time ago) but I couldn’t handle it cause I had no game so eventually she lost interest.

You don’t need game if a girl asks you out, you just need a sex drive. Maybe that’s what you are lacking. You couldn’t handle her asking you out because you have no sex drive.

I had just moved to NYC, and was not used to getting attention from beautiful women. Opinions?

Beautiful women don’t live in NYC.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

None of yall got some from a lady who wasnt feeling you up front?

Yeah exactly...you would actually have to BE different for it to make any difference.

men get trashed out over oneitis.

 

[Tilex]

You need confidence homie.
How can you live in NYC and be so insecure?
I personally consider Manhattan to be level 1 of a PUA field.
Game is so easy there that women are literally throwing themselves at you.

If you can't game in NYC, then you can't game anywhere else in the country.