"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Can f*ck buddies go any further?

splinterkb

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Ok. I met this girl at a party. We were both drunk, and I started working my magic. We ended up in the car giving eachother oral. At the end, I snagged her #, and left. The next weekend we met up again, while with some other people. Everyone was drunk or high, and we ended up going to see a movie. In the middle of the movie, she wanted me to "go to the bathroom" so we could make out for a while. I asked her why not just go to the back of the theater (we were 3 rows from the back), and she said the others will see us. We ended up going outside and making out anyways, but her saying that kind of bugged me. Her best friend was with us, so I'm guessing she didn't want to look like a slut in front of her friend. What I'm wondering, is if this still has potential to turn in to a decent relationship, or if it will just remain as f*ck buddies.
Thanks for your response's.

SKB
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There's no one answer that's going to be right. If you want something more, maybe you should try telling her that - or insinuating it. Read the DJB, maybe it will do you some good. Obviously you want a relationship, so go ahead and pursue it with whatever means you feel necessary. Nobody here is going to be able to tell you what's going on in that girls head, nor will we try. We'll only tell you what you can and can't try - it's up to you if you actually follow through. Get out there and start working at it, since you want it so badly! :)
 

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This girl is a slvt. She'll never be faithful, procede at your own risk.


WEAR A CONDOM! You don't know what's been up there before you got there.
 

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Well, I can probably trust her. She is one of those types that is really quiet in school, and has a 4.0, but very attractive with a nice body. I don't know how many guy friends she has really, I've only heard of one so far. I don't quite think she is a very large slut, considering we were both drunk, and didn't want her friend to see. Also, I layed the C+F and kino on very heavy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alright, thanks for the responses guys. Don't get me wrong, I know how to handle women, but I've never found a ****buddy that I actually would like to have a relatinoship with. This new instance is a first for me.
 

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wouldn't call her a slut persey as splinterkb was an obvious participant in this too (be fair dudes.) yeah what bishop said, ask "where is this going" and if she says stuff besides "well i like to go dating with you" - then it's just going to be FB.
 

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Thanks for the advice guys. I asked her out, and she said yes. We're both very happy with eachother, and can't get enough of eachother. I guess the only thing I had to do was pursue what I wanted.
 
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