"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Can exposing oneself ever be considered a positive, alpha move?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:


I guess this is the ultimate "d1ck move". :eek:o_O However, as there is something to be said for being bold, especially with one's sexuality, maybe this is a move that could result in success, albeit with some danger of being arrested or, as in this case, of being beaten up by the gal (although what are the chances that the gal is a professional fighter?)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sometimes if I have the girl isolated and I’m not in the mood for games I’ll just whip out. 9/10 times they put it in their mouth.
Sometimes they’ll act so “disgusted” but you get tired of the games sometimes.
 

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That's highly situational. Anywhere in public is clearly stupid though and not worth the risks. I don't think doing that is "alpha" at all, it's reserved for socially retarded guys. Instead of having game like a normal person they think just the sight of their penis will impress a woman. Maybe in badly acted porn, but in real life? Nope. He might actually just have taken a piss anyways, we just got her side of the story.

If you're in private with a girl, things have been going well and obviously things are going to happen then as @cola says it's better.
 

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Imagine if a man attacked a woman for flashing him
 
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