"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can anyone recommend a beginner Spanish DVD?

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I downloaded the Chinese pod course and I play that's while I'm doing my household chores. That has worked great and my Chinese is a bit established now.

I've heard good things about Latina chicks, I've also been chatting to this Colombian chick online and that's been fun.

I like latin dance and we have Spanish conversation meet up groups in Melbourne. So sounds like there is potential for expanding my market.

I downloaded the Spanish pod course but it's a bit weird even though it says its newbie level it doesn't start from scratch.

So can anyone recommend a course preferably one that I can download but I'm happy to spend a bit of money if its good.

I don't want an app because the whole point is to add some value to the time I use for my chores - I.e. Its needs to be something I can just listen and talk back to.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I downloaded the Chinese pod course and I play that's while I'm doing my household chores. That has worked great and my Chinese is a bit established now.

I've heard good things about Latina chicks, I've also been chatting to this Colombian chick online and that's been fun.

I like latin dance and we have Spanish conversation meet up groups in Melbourne. So sounds like there is potential for expanding my market.

I downloaded the Spanish pod course but it's a bit weird even though it says its newbie level it doesn't start from scratch.

So can anyone recommend a course preferably one that I can download but I'm happy to spend a bit of money if its good.

I don't want an app because the whole point is to add some value to the time I use for my chores - I.e. Its needs to be something I can just listen and talk back to.
aqui tienes algo

http://fsi-languages.yojik.eu/languages/spanish-index.html

un sitio practico
http://how-to-learn-any-language.com/e/index.html

que tengas suerte

....otra costita
http://learner.org/series/destinos/
 

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Thanks heaps guys. Destinos looks really interesting will keep me motivated. And pimsleur starts from absolute zero so perfect.
 

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They all suck to me. I would recommend taking class and then, hang around some people speaking Spanish. Take my advice with a grain of salt though, I struggle with teaching myself anything. I am an auditory learner, but most of the CDs don't do much 'teaching' IMO.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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