"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can anyone recommend a beginner Spanish DVD?

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I downloaded the Chinese pod course and I play that's while I'm doing my household chores. That has worked great and my Chinese is a bit established now.

I've heard good things about Latina chicks, I've also been chatting to this Colombian chick online and that's been fun.

I like latin dance and we have Spanish conversation meet up groups in Melbourne. So sounds like there is potential for expanding my market.

I downloaded the Spanish pod course but it's a bit weird even though it says its newbie level it doesn't start from scratch.

So can anyone recommend a course preferably one that I can download but I'm happy to spend a bit of money if its good.

I don't want an app because the whole point is to add some value to the time I use for my chores - I.e. Its needs to be something I can just listen and talk back to.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I downloaded the Chinese pod course and I play that's while I'm doing my household chores. That has worked great and my Chinese is a bit established now.

I've heard good things about Latina chicks, I've also been chatting to this Colombian chick online and that's been fun.

I like latin dance and we have Spanish conversation meet up groups in Melbourne. So sounds like there is potential for expanding my market.

I downloaded the Spanish pod course but it's a bit weird even though it says its newbie level it doesn't start from scratch.

So can anyone recommend a course preferably one that I can download but I'm happy to spend a bit of money if its good.

I don't want an app because the whole point is to add some value to the time I use for my chores - I.e. Its needs to be something I can just listen and talk back to.
aqui tienes algo

http://fsi-languages.yojik.eu/languages/spanish-index.html

un sitio practico
http://how-to-learn-any-language.com/e/index.html

que tengas suerte

....otra costita
http://learner.org/series/destinos/
 

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Thanks heaps guys. Destinos looks really interesting will keep me motivated. And pimsleur starts from absolute zero so perfect.
 

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They all suck to me. I would recommend taking class and then, hang around some people speaking Spanish. Take my advice with a grain of salt though, I struggle with teaching myself anything. I am an auditory learner, but most of the CDs don't do much 'teaching' IMO.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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