"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Can anyone give me a little one on one coaching?

T

tsmith2334

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2007
Messages
761
Reaction score
16
Location
NC
I have a favor to ask of you DJs. I recently typed out a little nine paragraph summary of where I'm at with a girl right now. I kind of did it to get everything down on paper, and to vent a little. It's basically just a detailed FR of our last date, and I want to know what I did well and how I can fix the mistakes I made. I don't want to bore the casual reader with it, but if any of you experiecened Don Juans want to check it out and give me some feedback, it would be greatly appreciated.

Please send me a private message if you're interested in taking on my situation and offering a little one-on-one advice. It shouldn't take too long, but it might be alot to swallow for the average dude searching here and looking for something quick. However, if you have a minute and are good at offering some positive advice, shoot me a PM or reply here.

Thanks!
 
Last edited:

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

B

Bvbidd

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 16, 2006
Messages
1,482
Reaction score
8
You do realize if she was really into you, you wouldn't have time for that kinda sh!t.
 
T

tsmith2334

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2007
Messages
761
Reaction score
16
Location
NC
Eh, fair enough. We're both at different schools now, so the exposure level just isn't there. It's not a bunch of emo whining, it's basically a detailed FR of a date we went on, and I'm just wondering how I did. That's how the FRs are on some other forums, really long and detailed.
 
P

Potbelly

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 17, 2006
Messages
820
Reaction score
7
Location
USA
post it here. change the names. get feedback. filtre out the crap. just post it man. people learn from your FRs as much as you learn from other people.

PEACE! GL withthe girl. if it doesn't work out, don't sweat it and get a hobby. Here I am, 8 yrs in the future from when I joined or whatever and I still have a lingering one-itis for some girl i used to like.

However, I don't let it interefere with my life. Once in a while I think, "wow I really kind of want to be with her." but then I go back to whatever I was doing and forget about it for a few days. I think it'll always be there, but thing is not to lete it put your life on hold. ie. I'm pretty much kicking ass at whatever I do in life recently (last 2 yrs), but am I perfect? no. relax.

I don't believe in God, but if thre was a god he gave us all 1 thing: TIME

He gave us a bag of equal time and we decide what we want to do with it. Want to go on a date? Read a book? Write 9 paragraphs about a girl? Help others? All your call.
 
P

Potbelly

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 17, 2006
Messages
820
Reaction score
7
Location
USA
alright more like 3 yrs...not 8 yrs haha
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

T

tsmith2334

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2007
Messages
761
Reaction score
16
Location
NC
Potbelly said:
I don't believe in God, but if thre was a god he gave us all 1 thing: TIME

He gave us a bag of equal time and we decide what we want to do with it. Want to go on a date? Read a book? Write 9 paragraphs about a girl? Help others? All your call.
Click to expand...
That's a nice philosophy there! For what it's worth, the FR took me no more 10 minutes to write. I'm real good at writing and expressing emotion so it was easy and quick for me. I just sat down, wrote down some things and that was it. It was a therapeutic.

Anyway, send me a PM if anyone wants to see it.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top