"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Can Anyone else just not stay up late?

KillingTime

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I dont know why but I'm just an early bird and it's not just that I feel tired the next day, it affects me really bad.
For example these past few days I've been staying up with this girl I met, not even that late just staying up till about 1 A.M. or so, not getting drunk or anything. I wake up at around 7 or 8 so I'm getting about 6-7 hours.... the next day I always wake up crazy nauseas and I basically can't eat the entire day, my stomach keeps cramping up and I wanna puke.... I'm a mess

Is anyone else like this? It really sucks b/c I basically have to make sure I'm in bed pretty early all the time even on weekends otherwise I suffer like you would not believe the next day
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MrS

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Not enough sleep looks like.
 

frivolousz21

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If I dont get 6 and half hours a night...atleast..I feel like shyt and I hate my day.

not sleeping sucks..and only a couple times in my life..again i will stay out late and have to get up early
its just not worth it
 

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That sounds weird. I can cope with any amount of sleep, although the less I have means I tire quicker the next day.

I used to go on the net (if I wasn't working the next day) until any time between 2am and 5am, then I would get up around 7am the next day. Now I'm in bed by 12am.

My only problem is if I sleep longer than about 8 hours - if I sleep in till around 10am then I'm extremely lethargic for most of the day.

Try some of these brainwave music files. There's a few out there for 'deep sleeping'.

Cheers
J
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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flippinfreak

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Magnatolia said:
That sounds weird. I can cope with any amount of sleep, although the less I have means I tire quicker the next day.

I used to go on the net (if I wasn't working the next day) until any time between 2am and 5am, then I would get up around 7am the next day. Now I'm in bed by 12am.

My only problem is if I sleep longer than about 8 hours - if I sleep in till around 10am then I'm extremely lethargic for most of the day.

Try some of these brainwave music files. There's a few out there for 'deep sleeping'.

Cheers
J
Do those things actually work?

Tonight I'm finally going to try the white noise from my radio, hope it helps me out.
 

Magnatolia

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I'm no expert, so I can't say either way. I've had some 'weird' experiences occasionally. But it has been proven by science that the brain operates on these brainwaves.

Give it a go, see what happens.

Cheers
J
 

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Tonight I'm finally going to try the white noise from my radio, hope it helps me out.
I tried that.

And every few hours, there was this loud, mysterious BEEEEEEEP!

I think it was an airplane's navigational beacon, or something.

A fan is much better. I don't care if it's winter.
 

penkitten

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you should start telling this chick goodnite about a half an hour before you actually expect her to get off the phone or whatever because you know how long it takes a chick to get off the phone. if you are hanging out in person then just tell her you have to crash to get enough sleep.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SELF-MASTERY

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Maybe she's boring and her conversation is putting you to sleep.
 
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