"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Can Anyone else just not stay up late?

KillingTime

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I dont know why but I'm just an early bird and it's not just that I feel tired the next day, it affects me really bad.
For example these past few days I've been staying up with this girl I met, not even that late just staying up till about 1 A.M. or so, not getting drunk or anything. I wake up at around 7 or 8 so I'm getting about 6-7 hours.... the next day I always wake up crazy nauseas and I basically can't eat the entire day, my stomach keeps cramping up and I wanna puke.... I'm a mess

Is anyone else like this? It really sucks b/c I basically have to make sure I'm in bed pretty early all the time even on weekends otherwise I suffer like you would not believe the next day
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MrS

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Not enough sleep looks like.
 

frivolousz21

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If I dont get 6 and half hours a night...atleast..I feel like shyt and I hate my day.

not sleeping sucks..and only a couple times in my life..again i will stay out late and have to get up early
its just not worth it
 

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That sounds weird. I can cope with any amount of sleep, although the less I have means I tire quicker the next day.

I used to go on the net (if I wasn't working the next day) until any time between 2am and 5am, then I would get up around 7am the next day. Now I'm in bed by 12am.

My only problem is if I sleep longer than about 8 hours - if I sleep in till around 10am then I'm extremely lethargic for most of the day.

Try some of these brainwave music files. There's a few out there for 'deep sleeping'.

Cheers
J
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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flippinfreak

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Magnatolia said:
That sounds weird. I can cope with any amount of sleep, although the less I have means I tire quicker the next day.

I used to go on the net (if I wasn't working the next day) until any time between 2am and 5am, then I would get up around 7am the next day. Now I'm in bed by 12am.

My only problem is if I sleep longer than about 8 hours - if I sleep in till around 10am then I'm extremely lethargic for most of the day.

Try some of these brainwave music files. There's a few out there for 'deep sleeping'.

Cheers
J
Do those things actually work?

Tonight I'm finally going to try the white noise from my radio, hope it helps me out.
 

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I'm no expert, so I can't say either way. I've had some 'weird' experiences occasionally. But it has been proven by science that the brain operates on these brainwaves.

Give it a go, see what happens.

Cheers
J
 

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Tonight I'm finally going to try the white noise from my radio, hope it helps me out.
I tried that.

And every few hours, there was this loud, mysterious BEEEEEEEP!

I think it was an airplane's navigational beacon, or something.

A fan is much better. I don't care if it's winter.
 

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you should start telling this chick goodnite about a half an hour before you actually expect her to get off the phone or whatever because you know how long it takes a chick to get off the phone. if you are hanging out in person then just tell her you have to crash to get enough sleep.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maybe she's boring and her conversation is putting you to sleep.
 
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