Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Under 20% would be acceptable. Sometimes even though it's bs it raises the emotions and motivation. If it's overdone of course it feels like a lead weight.If you want to settle down, and you have found the woman that meets your criteria - that is good for you.
My objection was to the 0% b1tchy stuff. Which is obvious nonsense.
Neil isn't 0% b1tchy, for fvck sake
None of us are.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ha!It's also based on context.
Take a high-interest girl who behaves herself, and is great to be around.
Then deny her exclusivity.
See how b1tchy she is then
With the way things are, we have no choice but to keep them on their toes. Remain attractive to the market. And ensure our needs are always met. Or else they will cuck us against a guy who wouldn't put up with her $hit, and he wouldn't lift a finger to help her...
Bingo bango. We learn about people by putting them in uncomfortable situations or ones that force them to work, or fight...Well, all I'm saying is that I had high-interest women this year. And instead of singing their praises for being "0% b1tchy", I strung things out by spinning plates. Saw some interesting things.
You can consider that my sh*t-test. These women began to over-invest and make mistakes (much like I did when I was blue-pill
One girl started to show me her orbiters (trying to make me jealous). I was shocked by how many there actually were. Then I found out that she had lesbian sex whilst we first started seeing each other (she was trying to sell me on the idea of a threesome - I think). I hate lesbians, so that didn't work. Wouldn't have found out those things, if I'd have just accepted her relationship frame. Or maybe I'd have found out a year down the line.
Another girl had a lawyer chode hanging about. She encouraged him more, the longer I wouldn't commit. Ended up sexting her one night whilst she went out with him. That makes me paranoid now about girls being on their phones during a date
You learn more by dragging women into deeper waters, than by just jumping in to a relationship and declaring her a unicorn.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'm sold.