You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Actively searching for a wife is frustrating and pointless, so yeah that's stupid. It's more like you fvck around with women and eventually stumble across one that shows great potential to become a wife. But everyone else up to that point had something about them that indicated they couldn't be trusted.cause trying to find wife material isn't stupid?
I am so not following you guys sometimes lol
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
All "shady" means is they had a motive and it was not YOU. It was about what they could get out of you. Kinda like a male friend who only hangs around cause you got money or connects. Your right the ones in it for US are rare and far and few and need to be observed differently.Actively searching for a wife is frustrating and pointless, so yeah that's stupid. It's more like you fvck around with women and eventually stumble across one that shows great potential to become a wife. But everyone else up to that point had something about them that indicated they couldn't be trusted.
I mean, you can go through a lot of women before you meet one that doesn't seem shady as fvck. That's just the nature of the dating market. Sh!tty women don't get picked and if they do it won't be long before they're back on the market. Good relationship/wife material don't stay single very long in the few cases they become available. So the resulting dating market is one where bad women make up most of it. That's why you're right, trying to find wife material is indeed stupid.
Guys who do it aren't exactly fully mentally stable cause many don't wrap up and sweep diseases and baby under the rug like it can't happen. With women the whole thing is about their pair bonding mechanism becoming damaged from all the pump and dumps and having to block their emotions.well it's actually a simple question with a simple answer, what do you mean by a slvt?
is she a slvt because she has some sort of unhealthy compulsion for sex (the female equivalent of a thirsty beta male who thinks only with his d!ck and would drag his balls through a mile of broken glass to get laid or give his home to an escaped mental patient because she is hot)? you're not a therapist, you cannot possibly cure a sex addiction/terminally low self esteem/past trauma acting itself out/etc.
is she a slvt because she is the female equivalent to a male horndog who only cares about getting his d!ck wet, no matter how much lying or heartbreaking needs to be done? in that case, why would you want to date someone who's at best extremely selfish/self-centered/narcissistic and at worst is a full blown sociopath?
but if she's a slvt solely out of a like for sex, like the mentally healthy guys on here who have banged many women because its fun, and she can stop sleeping around and commit to a man if she wants, then she will make a fantastic wife even if she had sex with 100 guys. the problem is, what if this is just another type of unicorn? it might be in women, but since obviously men exist who sleep around and aren't insane logic would dictate it must exist in women too (even if less common)
that's pretty much what my post was about, if a girl is called a slvt simply for enjoying sex and not wanting to make everyone jump through hoops to fvck her, that will be a vastly different experience than a narcissistic sociopath or an attention whoring unstable basketcaseGuys who do it aren't exactly fully mentally stable cause many don't wrap up and sweep diseases and baby under the rug like it can't happen. With women the whole thing is about their pair bonding mechanism becoming damaged from all the pump and dumps and having to block their emotions.
so every time you fvck a woman, you disrespect her? your d!ck is made of pure solidified evil and permanently corrupts a part of her soul?A woman who has no value for herself and takes ****s like breathing air will NOT value a husband and marriage.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Twist it how u want.that's pretty much what my post was about, if a girl is called a slvt simply for enjoying sex and not wanting to make everyone jump through hoops to fvck her, that will be a vastly different experience than a narcissistic sociopath or an attention whoring unstable basketcase
just like there's a difference between being good with women and being barney stinson from how I met your mother (iirc, he broke into a house with a girl and told her it was his house and snuck out in the morning after sex, leaving her there for when the cops/actual owners showed up).
so every time you fvck a woman, you disrespect her? your d!ck is made of pure solidified evil and permanently corrupts a part of her soul?
obviously not. there's much more to it than just get laid -> become demon
think about high school, you knew plenty of chicks who had barely gotten any d!cks yet, were they all angelic and pure? or were plenty of them just as bad as the women you know now but with a smaller rap sheet?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.