She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Actively searching for a wife is frustrating and pointless, so yeah that's stupid. It's more like you fvck around with women and eventually stumble across one that shows great potential to become a wife. But everyone else up to that point had something about them that indicated they couldn't be trusted.cause trying to find wife material isn't stupid?
I am so not following you guys sometimes lol
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
All "shady" means is they had a motive and it was not YOU. It was about what they could get out of you. Kinda like a male friend who only hangs around cause you got money or connects. Your right the ones in it for US are rare and far and few and need to be observed differently.Actively searching for a wife is frustrating and pointless, so yeah that's stupid. It's more like you fvck around with women and eventually stumble across one that shows great potential to become a wife. But everyone else up to that point had something about them that indicated they couldn't be trusted.
I mean, you can go through a lot of women before you meet one that doesn't seem shady as fvck. That's just the nature of the dating market. Sh!tty women don't get picked and if they do it won't be long before they're back on the market. Good relationship/wife material don't stay single very long in the few cases they become available. So the resulting dating market is one where bad women make up most of it. That's why you're right, trying to find wife material is indeed stupid.
Guys who do it aren't exactly fully mentally stable cause many don't wrap up and sweep diseases and baby under the rug like it can't happen. With women the whole thing is about their pair bonding mechanism becoming damaged from all the pump and dumps and having to block their emotions.well it's actually a simple question with a simple answer, what do you mean by a slvt?
is she a slvt because she has some sort of unhealthy compulsion for sex (the female equivalent of a thirsty beta male who thinks only with his d!ck and would drag his balls through a mile of broken glass to get laid or give his home to an escaped mental patient because she is hot)? you're not a therapist, you cannot possibly cure a sex addiction/terminally low self esteem/past trauma acting itself out/etc.
is she a slvt because she is the female equivalent to a male horndog who only cares about getting his d!ck wet, no matter how much lying or heartbreaking needs to be done? in that case, why would you want to date someone who's at best extremely selfish/self-centered/narcissistic and at worst is a full blown sociopath?
but if she's a slvt solely out of a like for sex, like the mentally healthy guys on here who have banged many women because its fun, and she can stop sleeping around and commit to a man if she wants, then she will make a fantastic wife even if she had sex with 100 guys. the problem is, what if this is just another type of unicorn? it might be in women, but since obviously men exist who sleep around and aren't insane logic would dictate it must exist in women too (even if less common)
that's pretty much what my post was about, if a girl is called a slvt simply for enjoying sex and not wanting to make everyone jump through hoops to fvck her, that will be a vastly different experience than a narcissistic sociopath or an attention whoring unstable basketcaseGuys who do it aren't exactly fully mentally stable cause many don't wrap up and sweep diseases and baby under the rug like it can't happen. With women the whole thing is about their pair bonding mechanism becoming damaged from all the pump and dumps and having to block their emotions.
so every time you fvck a woman, you disrespect her? your d!ck is made of pure solidified evil and permanently corrupts a part of her soul?A woman who has no value for herself and takes ****s like breathing air will NOT value a husband and marriage.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Twist it how u want.that's pretty much what my post was about, if a girl is called a slvt simply for enjoying sex and not wanting to make everyone jump through hoops to fvck her, that will be a vastly different experience than a narcissistic sociopath or an attention whoring unstable basketcase
just like there's a difference between being good with women and being barney stinson from how I met your mother (iirc, he broke into a house with a girl and told her it was his house and snuck out in the morning after sex, leaving her there for when the cops/actual owners showed up).
so every time you fvck a woman, you disrespect her? your d!ck is made of pure solidified evil and permanently corrupts a part of her soul?
obviously not. there's much more to it than just get laid -> become demon
think about high school, you knew plenty of chicks who had barely gotten any d!cks yet, were they all angelic and pure? or were plenty of them just as bad as the women you know now but with a smaller rap sheet?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.