You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Actively searching for a wife is frustrating and pointless, so yeah that's stupid. It's more like you fvck around with women and eventually stumble across one that shows great potential to become a wife. But everyone else up to that point had something about them that indicated they couldn't be trusted.cause trying to find wife material isn't stupid?
I am so not following you guys sometimes lol
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
All "shady" means is they had a motive and it was not YOU. It was about what they could get out of you. Kinda like a male friend who only hangs around cause you got money or connects. Your right the ones in it for US are rare and far and few and need to be observed differently.Actively searching for a wife is frustrating and pointless, so yeah that's stupid. It's more like you fvck around with women and eventually stumble across one that shows great potential to become a wife. But everyone else up to that point had something about them that indicated they couldn't be trusted.
I mean, you can go through a lot of women before you meet one that doesn't seem shady as fvck. That's just the nature of the dating market. Sh!tty women don't get picked and if they do it won't be long before they're back on the market. Good relationship/wife material don't stay single very long in the few cases they become available. So the resulting dating market is one where bad women make up most of it. That's why you're right, trying to find wife material is indeed stupid.
Guys who do it aren't exactly fully mentally stable cause many don't wrap up and sweep diseases and baby under the rug like it can't happen. With women the whole thing is about their pair bonding mechanism becoming damaged from all the pump and dumps and having to block their emotions.well it's actually a simple question with a simple answer, what do you mean by a slvt?
is she a slvt because she has some sort of unhealthy compulsion for sex (the female equivalent of a thirsty beta male who thinks only with his d!ck and would drag his balls through a mile of broken glass to get laid or give his home to an escaped mental patient because she is hot)? you're not a therapist, you cannot possibly cure a sex addiction/terminally low self esteem/past trauma acting itself out/etc.
is she a slvt because she is the female equivalent to a male horndog who only cares about getting his d!ck wet, no matter how much lying or heartbreaking needs to be done? in that case, why would you want to date someone who's at best extremely selfish/self-centered/narcissistic and at worst is a full blown sociopath?
but if she's a slvt solely out of a like for sex, like the mentally healthy guys on here who have banged many women because its fun, and she can stop sleeping around and commit to a man if she wants, then she will make a fantastic wife even if she had sex with 100 guys. the problem is, what if this is just another type of unicorn? it might be in women, but since obviously men exist who sleep around and aren't insane logic would dictate it must exist in women too (even if less common)
that's pretty much what my post was about, if a girl is called a slvt simply for enjoying sex and not wanting to make everyone jump through hoops to fvck her, that will be a vastly different experience than a narcissistic sociopath or an attention whoring unstable basketcaseGuys who do it aren't exactly fully mentally stable cause many don't wrap up and sweep diseases and baby under the rug like it can't happen. With women the whole thing is about their pair bonding mechanism becoming damaged from all the pump and dumps and having to block their emotions.
so every time you fvck a woman, you disrespect her? your d!ck is made of pure solidified evil and permanently corrupts a part of her soul?A woman who has no value for herself and takes ****s like breathing air will NOT value a husband and marriage.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Twist it how u want.that's pretty much what my post was about, if a girl is called a slvt simply for enjoying sex and not wanting to make everyone jump through hoops to fvck her, that will be a vastly different experience than a narcissistic sociopath or an attention whoring unstable basketcase
just like there's a difference between being good with women and being barney stinson from how I met your mother (iirc, he broke into a house with a girl and told her it was his house and snuck out in the morning after sex, leaving her there for when the cops/actual owners showed up).
so every time you fvck a woman, you disrespect her? your d!ck is made of pure solidified evil and permanently corrupts a part of her soul?
obviously not. there's much more to it than just get laid -> become demon
think about high school, you knew plenty of chicks who had barely gotten any d!cks yet, were they all angelic and pure? or were plenty of them just as bad as the women you know now but with a smaller rap sheet?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.