"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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calling ur gf a b!tch...

illmatic1005

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ok..my gf is always like..can u get me that, can u get me this..sometimes i do it, sometimes i dont

so the other day she said, ''can you fix my sleeve i dont feel like doing it''

so i said 'haha i think u can handle that'

and she said 'ur such a b!tch', and i said "no u r..do this do that is all i hear''

and she got PlSSED and said .i was only joking, u wre serious,,,and i said no

and shes been angry ever since..

any advice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ignore her, she'll cool down. DO NOT SAY SORRY. If she's acting like a spoiled brat, you have the right to tell her she is.
 

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yea but shes still mad..she wont kiss, hug, and doesnt look at me...but when she does she gives a stupid fake smile that i'd like to tear off her stupid fukcing face ..she gets me so pssed off sometimes but i cant do anything because she is a sensitive little b!tch and will hold a grudge...

sometimes i wanna scream F*CK YOU in her face..AHHHHHHH

o yea...y not say sorry tho? it may make her unmad
 

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how often do you fcuk her?

seriously, how u answer this question will make all the difference in the world
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Right now she's just testing you. What you said wasn't that bad: I called my girlfriend a ***** and she was mad for a few minutes but then she got over it. If she's holding a grudge cuz you said "no you're a *****" and gave examples to support your affirmation, she's either a) really messed up or b) trying to power-guilt you into submission.

Don't say sorry, because she will win. And if she wins, she will lose respect for you. Act like it doesn't phase you, go do your own business, and if she still acts *****y and moany, don't talk to her for a few days. Let her cool off and contact you.
 

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good, you did the right thing..so many *****es think they can push guys around, it's time for a reality check..*****
 

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how often do you fcuk her?

seriously, how u answer this question will make all the difference in the world
well i would like to hear the answer if i said both:

A LOT..at least 4 times a week

and

Barely ever..she always says she wants to do it, but cancels at the end with some lousy excuse

(by the way its the 2nd one, but can i hear the answer to both?)
 

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i say call a square a square and circle a circle.
And have responsibility for your words... if you said something, don't take it back, you're a MAN, your word is LAW.
 

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illmatic1005 said:
well i would like to hear the answer if i said both:

A LOT..at least 4 times a week

and

Barely ever..she always says she wants to do it, but cancels at the end with some lousy excuse

(by the way its the 2nd one, but can i hear the answer to both?)

ok then

she acts like a bytch because you arent satisfying her sexually

either fcuk her good, or expect a break up soon
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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she jsut told me:

"Hi. Um i really hate fighting with u. I kno u meant it and im sorry u feel that way. I feel like dying when were not talking. and i am mad i just wanna talk 2 u . idk im retarded. u dont need this or me.
 

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shes is like"

"if somebody who loves me so much thinks im a b*tch, then i must be nothing to everybody else. whatever this **** is so gay i dont care anymore."

WOW how angry did this make her?
 

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ok i talked to her and i guess i switched it around..because she ended up feeling bad and saying sorry.
 

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illmatic1005 said:
ok i talked to her and i guess i switched it around..because she ended up feeling bad and saying sorry.
Congrats for not bowing down! Your GF seems to be an insecure girl. Be firm but also supportive and make her feel good and secure. She'll soon be fvcking your brains out
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ehh too immature. I can tell just by the way she talks.

She sounds good only for a quick ****.
 

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You've been here 2-1/2 yrs and your letting women treat you this way. Your hopeless, more importantly you deserved to be treated like her servant. More importantly you deserve to barely get any action from her, your the women in the relationship.

Do you sit down when you pee too?
 

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MacAvoy said:
You've been here 2-1/2 yrs and your letting women treat you this way. Your hopeless, more importantly you deserved to be treated like her servant. More importantly you deserve to barely get any action from her, your the women in the relationship.

Do you sit down when you pee too?
u kno y ..bcuz ppl like u try to act cool over the internet instead of helping. go away. k thanks
 

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What any here posts WILL NOT help you. The only thing that can help you is you. You need to read the bible and truly learn from there.
 

illmatic1005

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MacAvoy said:
What any here posts WILL NOT help you. The only thing that can help you is you. You need to read the bible and truly learn from there.
actually that is so true..no joke that was probably the best advice.

thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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