"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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calling ur gf a b!tch...

illmatic1005

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ok..my gf is always like..can u get me that, can u get me this..sometimes i do it, sometimes i dont

so the other day she said, ''can you fix my sleeve i dont feel like doing it''

so i said 'haha i think u can handle that'

and she said 'ur such a b!tch', and i said "no u r..do this do that is all i hear''

and she got PlSSED and said .i was only joking, u wre serious,,,and i said no

and shes been angry ever since..

any advice?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ignore her, she'll cool down. DO NOT SAY SORRY. If she's acting like a spoiled brat, you have the right to tell her she is.
 

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yea but shes still mad..she wont kiss, hug, and doesnt look at me...but when she does she gives a stupid fake smile that i'd like to tear off her stupid fukcing face ..she gets me so pssed off sometimes but i cant do anything because she is a sensitive little b!tch and will hold a grudge...

sometimes i wanna scream F*CK YOU in her face..AHHHHHHH

o yea...y not say sorry tho? it may make her unmad
 

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how often do you fcuk her?

seriously, how u answer this question will make all the difference in the world
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AlexTheGreat

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Right now she's just testing you. What you said wasn't that bad: I called my girlfriend a ***** and she was mad for a few minutes but then she got over it. If she's holding a grudge cuz you said "no you're a *****" and gave examples to support your affirmation, she's either a) really messed up or b) trying to power-guilt you into submission.

Don't say sorry, because she will win. And if she wins, she will lose respect for you. Act like it doesn't phase you, go do your own business, and if she still acts *****y and moany, don't talk to her for a few days. Let her cool off and contact you.
 

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good, you did the right thing..so many *****es think they can push guys around, it's time for a reality check..*****
 

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AFC Savior said:
how often do you fcuk her?

seriously, how u answer this question will make all the difference in the world
well i would like to hear the answer if i said both:

A LOT..at least 4 times a week

and

Barely ever..she always says she wants to do it, but cancels at the end with some lousy excuse

(by the way its the 2nd one, but can i hear the answer to both?)
 

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i say call a square a square and circle a circle.
And have responsibility for your words... if you said something, don't take it back, you're a MAN, your word is LAW.
 

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illmatic1005 said:
well i would like to hear the answer if i said both:

A LOT..at least 4 times a week

and

Barely ever..she always says she wants to do it, but cancels at the end with some lousy excuse

(by the way its the 2nd one, but can i hear the answer to both?)

ok then

she acts like a bytch because you arent satisfying her sexually

either fcuk her good, or expect a break up soon
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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she jsut told me:

"Hi. Um i really hate fighting with u. I kno u meant it and im sorry u feel that way. I feel like dying when were not talking. and i am mad i just wanna talk 2 u . idk im retarded. u dont need this or me.
 

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shes is like"

"if somebody who loves me so much thinks im a b*tch, then i must be nothing to everybody else. whatever this **** is so gay i dont care anymore."

WOW how angry did this make her?
 

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ok i talked to her and i guess i switched it around..because she ended up feeling bad and saying sorry.
 

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illmatic1005 said:
ok i talked to her and i guess i switched it around..because she ended up feeling bad and saying sorry.
Congrats for not bowing down! Your GF seems to be an insecure girl. Be firm but also supportive and make her feel good and secure. She'll soon be fvcking your brains out
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ehh too immature. I can tell just by the way she talks.

She sounds good only for a quick ****.
 

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You've been here 2-1/2 yrs and your letting women treat you this way. Your hopeless, more importantly you deserved to be treated like her servant. More importantly you deserve to barely get any action from her, your the women in the relationship.

Do you sit down when you pee too?
 

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MacAvoy said:
You've been here 2-1/2 yrs and your letting women treat you this way. Your hopeless, more importantly you deserved to be treated like her servant. More importantly you deserve to barely get any action from her, your the women in the relationship.

Do you sit down when you pee too?
u kno y ..bcuz ppl like u try to act cool over the internet instead of helping. go away. k thanks
 

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What any here posts WILL NOT help you. The only thing that can help you is you. You need to read the bible and truly learn from there.
 

illmatic1005

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MacAvoy said:
What any here posts WILL NOT help you. The only thing that can help you is you. You need to read the bible and truly learn from there.
actually that is so true..no joke that was probably the best advice.

thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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