i have been talking to this chick on the phone for awhile and i noticed that she stopped answering my calls,but responded to my text,and she still continued to instant message me. so i left her a message once,she called me back. i was busy when she called back and i told her i would call her later. i called her later and called her out on not answering her phone. im like "i know why you dont answer your phone" and she was like"why is that" then i said "cause you like to know who you do and dont have power over,you like to see who keeps calling you". she came up with a lame excuss why she does that and i called her out on it"thats a bunch of crap i know your power hungry and do it for fun" and she was quiet for a few seconds then i said "iam right and you know it". is it good to call out the ladies on their ways to make themselves feel more empowering,cause the way i look at it,as long as they know what you are doing and that you know why they do what they do,you are in power.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Calling power hungry girls out!!!!
- Thread starter blinkwatt
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You are right about her power trip and that applies to a LOT of women. I'm not sure if calling them on it is good or bad though as I've never tried it. I'd be interested to hear experiences of those who have.
PuertoRican_Lover
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That was amazing insight and you put her in her place - she has more respect for you now!!!
I think I'm going to cry after reading a DJ asserting his manhood! (Why isn't there a tear emoticon - do only women sites have them?)
I think I'm going to cry after reading a DJ asserting his manhood! (Why isn't there a tear emoticon - do only women sites have them?)
h2o
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hey PRL, how about, 
to the original post...i don't know, but i'm going to do something like that the next i call up a girl and she takes my numer and says she'll call me back. you know they never do. (of course, i'm talking about when you call her for the first time)
to the original post...i don't know, but i'm going to do something like that the next i call up a girl and she takes my numer and says she'll call me back. you know they never do. (of course, i'm talking about when you call her for the first time)
i got a text from her thie morning when i woke up saying "it wasnt a power trip how i didnt asnwer my phone,my phone battery broke and i had to tape it on". i love knowing how she tries to make up excusses if wasnt persistent i would have given up by now.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
You wanna know how I exercise my power? I number close women I'm not especially interested in and then I NEVER call them.
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is it good to call out the ladies on their ways to make themselves feel more empowering,
No, this is a very bad idea. It was a mistake to tell her 'I know why you don't answer your phone'. You gave her what little power you had by 'saying' it. You probably came across pretty insecure to her or a guy who 'thinks' he knows his $hit. Now, she's not returning your call...shocker.
If you knew her 'game', you should have kept quiet and turned it around on her. This would have 'shown' her you know what she's doing and you're not falling into it. You know the term 'actions speak louder then words'?
No, this is a very bad idea. It was a mistake to tell her 'I know why you don't answer your phone'. You gave her what little power you had by 'saying' it. You probably came across pretty insecure to her or a guy who 'thinks' he knows his $hit. Now, she's not returning your call...shocker.
If you knew her 'game', you should have kept quiet and turned it around on her. This would have 'shown' her you know what she's doing and you're not falling into it. You know the term 'actions speak louder then words'?