i have been talking to this chick on the phone for awhile and i noticed that she stopped answering my calls,but responded to my text,and she still continued to instant message me. so i left her a message once,she called me back. i was busy when she called back and i told her i would call her later. i called her later and called her out on not answering her phone. im like "i know why you dont answer your phone" and she was like"why is that" then i said "cause you like to know who you do and dont have power over,you like to see who keeps calling you". she came up with a lame excuss why she does that and i called her out on it"thats a bunch of crap i know your power hungry and do it for fun" and she was quiet for a few seconds then i said "iam right and you know it". is it good to call out the ladies on their ways to make themselves feel more empowering,cause the way i look at it,as long as they know what you are doing and that you know why they do what they do,you are in power.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Calling power hungry girls out!!!!
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You are right about her power trip and that applies to a LOT of women. I'm not sure if calling them on it is good or bad though as I've never tried it. I'd be interested to hear experiences of those who have.
PuertoRican_Lover
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That was amazing insight and you put her in her place - she has more respect for you now!!!
I think I'm going to cry after reading a DJ asserting his manhood! (Why isn't there a tear emoticon - do only women sites have them?)
I think I'm going to cry after reading a DJ asserting his manhood! (Why isn't there a tear emoticon - do only women sites have them?)
h2o
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hey PRL, how about, 
to the original post...i don't know, but i'm going to do something like that the next i call up a girl and she takes my numer and says she'll call me back. you know they never do. (of course, i'm talking about when you call her for the first time)
to the original post...i don't know, but i'm going to do something like that the next i call up a girl and she takes my numer and says she'll call me back. you know they never do. (of course, i'm talking about when you call her for the first time)
i got a text from her thie morning when i woke up saying "it wasnt a power trip how i didnt asnwer my phone,my phone battery broke and i had to tape it on". i love knowing how she tries to make up excusses if wasnt persistent i would have given up by now.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
You wanna know how I exercise my power? I number close women I'm not especially interested in and then I NEVER call them.
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is it good to call out the ladies on their ways to make themselves feel more empowering,
No, this is a very bad idea. It was a mistake to tell her 'I know why you don't answer your phone'. You gave her what little power you had by 'saying' it. You probably came across pretty insecure to her or a guy who 'thinks' he knows his $hit. Now, she's not returning your call...shocker.
If you knew her 'game', you should have kept quiet and turned it around on her. This would have 'shown' her you know what she's doing and you're not falling into it. You know the term 'actions speak louder then words'?
No, this is a very bad idea. It was a mistake to tell her 'I know why you don't answer your phone'. You gave her what little power you had by 'saying' it. You probably came across pretty insecure to her or a guy who 'thinks' he knows his $hit. Now, she's not returning your call...shocker.
If you knew her 'game', you should have kept quiet and turned it around on her. This would have 'shown' her you know what she's doing and you're not falling into it. You know the term 'actions speak louder then words'?