Calling out all guys on here who do daygame.

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I recall one instance where I met a woman on a walking path and she texted me after that about how awesome it was to meet me so unexpectedly. Little did she know that I approached her during a multi-hour approach session. I made it look natural.



Yes!!!

+1

I'm addicted to it. The catch and release. Sadly the girls usually weird, a bad lay or something is off. I still enjoy the ride although by the very nature of game fizzles out (sooner or later) and evaporates going back to wherever it came from like we had never even met. Strange!

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

So much good insights on this thread. I think I worry too much as someone who daygames because of what I have heard about guys who get labeled as that creepy dude at a place. IMO, you are doing it wrong if other men and plain looking women aren't envying you for macking on attractive women. This is all of course assuming you live in a big enough city and not a small town.

 

[SW15]

I would argue that Daygame is miles healthier and more productive than going to bars and even clubs. You don't lose your hearing to the loud music, avoid the confrontational vibes that alcohol brings, and avoid falling into alcoholism which if you go to bars and clubs, is quite tempting. What I have found is that as soon as I have transitioned from going hard in nightlife to switching to daygame, I am healthier, more productive, more fit, and even more bold as a result. It is mentally harder to approach women during the day as opposed to at a nightclub where the situation is begging for it.

All true. Around age 30 is when I transitioned from being more night game oriented to being more day game oriented. I had been aware of day game as early as my early 20s around the time I graduated college. I never took it seriously as an option until I read Roosh's "Day Bang", which came out when I was 28. I needed a good framework for doing daygame in order to do it seriously. I admire the men who have done daygame without extended reading or watching of YouTube videos.

If you think hobbies and co-ed sports are bad (they are awful), try MeetUp lol. Literally flooded with creepy old dudes preying on the few younger women at the meetup. One of the most depressing events I've ever been to.

Meetup is definitely worse than co-ed sports leagues. Co-ed sports leagues are generally a pass. If you had to compare attending co-ed sports leagues vs. going to fitness classes to approach, a fitness class is going to come out as the superior option every time.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

All true. Around age 30 is when I transitioned from being more night game oriented to being more day game oriented. I had been aware of day game as early as my early 20s around the time I graduated college. I never took it seriously as an option until I read Roosh's "Day Bang", which came out when I was 28. I needed a good framework for doing daygame in order to do it seriously. I admire the men who have done daygame without extended reading or watching of YouTube videos.

I barely do nightgame anymore man, it kills my ears to do it and I have had hearing less to a degree as a result. When I did it in NYC, it was followed by eating a lot of junk food and getting chubby over a 2 year period. When your metabolism slows down, you start to appreciate walking around in the day drinking nothing but water. Plus, your waist line will thank you for it. Daygame is harder and more awkward but so much healthier.

BTW, I am making a thread soon that you will love.

 

[SW15]

I barely do nightgame anymore man, it kills my ears to do it and I have had hearing less to a degree as a result. When I did it in NYC, it was followed by eating a lot of junk food and getting chubby over a 2 year period. When your metabolism slows down, you start to appreciate walking around in the day drinking nothing but water. Plus, your waist line will thank you for it. Daygame is harder and more awkward but so much healthier.

BTW, I am making a thread soon that you will love.

The most difficult thing about nightgame for me was the fact that I never liked staying up late at night. Even when I was 21-25, I preferred going to bed at a reasonable hour. There were times in that era where I wasn't enjoying being out at the night spots at 12 AM-2 AM looking for vagina.

I didn't develop hearing loss. Some night venues are way too loud, which was something I remember mentioning in that age 21-25 era.

Daygame takes more skill. There's a reason daygame has always been a bit of a niche activity. Most men can't approach women in non-bar venues while sober.

 

[corrector]

I thought daygame was dead because of smartphones and tinder apps and past PUAs who have poisoned the well. So women don't just think you are a pest while swiping their chads on their tinder apps and this actually works for you? If you are approaching women at a South beach I guess that works?

 

[SW15]

Daygame is not dead. It is the most viable form of game that exists. The app environment is a mess & bars got devastated by the pandemic. Indoor masking did ruin grocery stores, malls, and bookstores but outdoor approaching at parks & on walking paths was the lone survivor.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

I've never had an issue with being labeled as that-guy, but I don't game in the same 100'x100' spot day in and day out. I tend to do it as I go about my day, hang out with friends, go to Target or the grocery store or the greenways, etc. Sometimes I will deliberately pick hang-out locations with my friends that I know will have us in a place with good foot-traffic and a higher chance of hot young women being around. And as for reactions from on-lookers, I've yet to have anything other than a good reaction. Most women and men who stop and watch seem spell-bound, like they can't believe what they are seeing, and usually after an interaction, women (even grannies) often give me a look of, "I wish you would do that to me." Many guys just look and smile like "damn, I wish I had the courage to do that." But the majority of bystanders are oblivious to it and off in their own little worlds so they don't even notice and if the do they don't care. People really don't give AF.


Actually I take back my first statement - it did happen to me once. In another city while traveling, I did have one girl I approached ask me something like, "Are you one of those guys who is here to learn how to approach and game girls?" I just laughed it off and asked her if that was really a thing, and asked her if I seemed like that type. She said I didn't, said that people really did come there for that, and then I made a comment about how interesting it is that things have gotten to where they are today where men feel like they need instruction on how to talk to women, then I changed the subject and we talked about other things. But that also leads me want to mention that when I was learning day game and pick up, 99% of the guys I would see on Youtube seemed pretty fake in their approaches. Like, it was really obvious they were gaming, and trying to entertain. That's just never the approach I have taken. I've always just been real and authentic and tried to have a genuine conversation/connection with another human being (who happened to be a hot woman). The YT guys just seemed very ****y and "gamey" (for lack of a better description) right from the get-go. If I was a woman I'd feel like I was probably the 100th person he'd said the same thing to that day and would be annoyed. I very, very rarely get that vibe from women, probably because of my approach. I'm confident, but not ****y, and I am able to convey an ACTUAL honest interest in the woman, not just an interest in my pitch and banter. These guys are coming off like a car salesman. I never do that. I come off as a guy who saw a beautiful girl and was very curious about her and couldn't resist the urge to meet her and see what she was all about and who she was and then judge her to determine if I'm actually interested in proceeding with her. For whatever reason, the reaction I usually get is one of the fairy tail scenario that all women hope for - that chance encounter. And really that IS what it is.

 

[nicksaiz65]

I barely do nightgame anymore man, it kills my ears to do it and I have had hearing less to a degree as a result. When I did it in NYC, it was followed by eating a lot of junk food and getting chubby over a 2 year period. When your metabolism slows down, you start to appreciate walking around in the day drinking nothing but water. Plus, your waist line will thank you for it. Daygame is harder and more awkward but so much healthier.

BTW, I am making a thread soon that you will love.

That’s a very good point that I wish more guys talked about more when it comes to Nightgame.

If you’re drinking heavily every time you go out, and eating lots of fast food after plus going out multiple times a week: it’s a surefire recipe for weight gain. It can really sneak up on you. Been there, done that. And all that extra weight gain isn’t helping your SMV at all lol

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

The most difficult thing about nightgame for me was the fact that I never liked staying up late at night. Even when I was 21-25, I preferred going to bed at a reasonable hour. There were times in that era where I wasn't enjoying being out at the night spots at 12 AM-2 AM looking for vagina.

I didn't develop hearing loss. Some night venues are way too loud, which was something I remember mentioning in that age 21-25 era.

Daygame takes more skill. There's a reason daygame has always been a bit of a niche activity. Most men can't approach women in non-bar venues while sober.

I've ****ed my sleep over the years hammering it out. Sometimes to no good BUT I won't ever wonder what if? As I got older, I won't **** with my sleep. Not for a girl or get laid. As I got older I put 110% into my sleep, diet, meditation, lifting, lifestyle, biz, and game among other things.

@Jesse Pinkman mate you were smarter. I ****ed my sleep. I had insomnia. I learned later it was not ideal. I never banged with drugs or booze. I barely partied ever. I abused my body by poor or wack sleep. Now minimum i aim for 8 hours every night deep REM sleep.

For night game, it's 45min Pitt stop maybe 60min. Special occasion. And I'm gone. Flash game. Instant pull or I will take ig or digits and sleep. SRS

At late teens or early 20s it's not bad. At mid or late 20s it's just stupid. It ages a man. It lowers T. It ruins the quality of life.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

That’s a very good point that I wish more guys talked about more when it comes to Nightgame.

If you’re drinking heavily every time you go out, and eating lots of fast food after plus going out multiple times a week: it’s a surefire recipe for weight gain. It can really sneak up on you. Been there, done that. And all that extra weight gain isn’t helping your SMV at all lol

Reminds me of rsd Luke or Derek lol. Partying and age just rekt a man. Ideally be better to treat the body like a temple. Look younger than your age.

Picked up in a grocery store. Girl was younger than you by a few years lol. She asked my age age. I told her. She said "no. You are hot."

Lock in your sleep game.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Daygame is not dead. It is the most viable form of game that exists. The app environment is a mess & bars got devastated by the pandemic. Indoor masking did ruin grocery stores, malls, and bookstores but outdoor approaching at parks & on walking paths was the lone survivor.

I love it. I prefer cold approach to OLD. TBH I pick game over online or DM some ig skank. I saw on forums girls posting screenshot of fellas weak come on. I find modern women repugnant.

As you mentioned, I took a new love to day game since the pandemic. Trails, dog parks, grocery store, workout parks, and a number of places became my new stomping yard. I highly recommend it.

Looking for some new ones. Be sure to share if and when I find them.

 

[SW15]

The most difficult thing about nightgame for me was the fact that I never liked staying up late at night. Even when I was 21-25, I preferred going to bed at a reasonable hour. There were times in that era where I wasn't enjoying being out at the night spots at 12 AM-2 AM looking for vagina.

Lock in your sleep game.

Now minimum i aim for 8 hours every night deep REM sleep.

For the entirety of my adult life, I've known the importance of sleep. I've always known I've functioned better when sleeping 7-9 hours and going to bed before 10:30 PM. It's difficult to do night game if you're going to bed before 10:30 PM.

There have been plenty of times where I sacrified sleep to run night game and try and get vagina.

Daygame is way better for this. Organized events often end before 9 PM so you can get sleep if you those for getting laid.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

I have been doing daygame for a couple of months and I wanted to ask, especially for those of you who live in big cities, how do you avoid being labeled as "that guy" if you end up going to certain spots a lot during the weekend. Like I notice in most cities, there are only a couple areas that are good for daygame in terms of volume and the rest suck.

interesting question for sure. there needs to be some awareness of the situation but generally shouldn't be a huge issue (knock on wood)

What I do not think is good for anyone is spam approaching. Just an awful idea that does not lead to results. ever.

 

[ManlyMan]

As far as getting a bad rep. It happens if you constantly game in the same city for a number of years on a regular basis. However it doesn't give a bad rep with all women. I remember hitting a point in my city where I would walk into a store and the store clerk would smile and look me up and down with a smile. that type of stuff would happen on a regular basis with women wherever I went. This is because I had a rep of approaching women. so the rep is a good thing and a bad thing.

Bottom line I strongly feel that there is not a one size fits all game. In every facet of life people are taking risks of some kind. To give a example of a very indirect day game guru. Is Roosh. A women falsely accused him of rape. So as I stated there is no one size fits all type of game. There is potential trouble from that kind of woman at any time in the seduction.

I might add whatever type of game you decide to use as well. Night game. Online dating etc.

 

[LucianoM]

Daygamers have always been losers in my experience

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Daygamers have always been losers in my experience

MOST of the times, yes.

However, the 5% who do it good are making a killing.

Unfortunately most daygamers think that spamming a bunch of girls with the same line to "get a lot of approaches in" is game.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

As far as getting a bad rep. It happens if you constantly game in the same city for a number of years on a regular basis. However it doesn't give a bad rep with all women. I remember hitting a point in my city where I would walk into a store and the store clerk would smile and look me up and down with a smile. that type of stuff would happen on a regular basis with women wherever I went. This is because I had a rep of approaching women.

Bottom line I strongly feel that there is not a one size fits all game. In every facet of life people are taking risks of some kind. To give a example of a very indirect day game guru. Is Roosh. A women falsely accused him of rape. So as I stated there is no one size fits all type of game. There is potential trouble from that kind of woman at any time in the seduction.

I might add whatever type of game you decide to use as well. Night game. Online dating etc.

I think some woman I have run into again it was not a big deal (If interaction was good and they flaked or whatever).. however when they saw me again 10-15 min later walking around I think they were kinda mad lol. From guys I've seen or security etc does not seem to be a big deal

 

[PlatoPacks23]

MOST of the times, yes.

However, the 5% who do it good are making a killing.

Unfortunately most daygamers think that spamming a bunch of girls with the same line to "get a lot of approaches in" is game.

and even if they are "losers"... so what? at least they are trying to better themselves. some guys are awkward, or nerdy, or just didn't have much luck w woman and are trying something different

Spam approaching is not game and not effective or good for anyone whatsoever. ruins it for everyone

 

[SW15]

Spam approaching is not game and not effective or good for anyone whatsoever. ruins it for everyone

One of my male friends (now married) was a spam approacher in bars with a weak opening line. He managed to put up a triple digit notch count doing that as a result of being 6'4".

I don't know of anyone who has done well in spam day approaching.