"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Calling me stupid...

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Well i am in highschool so i have to say i am a bit immature. Im actually quite the joker, and i lay on the ****y hard sometimes...

Anyways, people always call me stupid...i joined this organization called cadets and im an NCO (in a position of authority) and when i talk to other NCO's (in gr 10, 11) they always call me stupid.

Here's an example:
[Some girl got some bandanas to bring onto a weekend activity to give to her group of cadets to wear and each was only $1]

Me: "Are you sure those arent eating napkins"

Her: [Smile] "Your so stupid"

Well one of my best guy friends has been calling me that cuz i have a wild imagination (not perv), so other ppl start calling me that and i notice funny things around my surrounding so sometimes i really funny so he calls me stupid cuz the thing thats funny is so stupid that it makes him laugh. (Example as shown above).

--> Would you guys say that im saying my funny quotes in a bad way (should i change it to a comment instead of a question)

---> I should stop making funny comments that are considered "stupid"

P.S. I nvr really talk to this girl and that was the first time i actually made her smile.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
Well i am in highschool so i have to say i am a bit immature. Im actually quite the joker, and i lay on the ****y hard sometimes...

Anyways, people always call me stupid...i joined this organization called cadets and im an NCO (in a position of authority) and when i talk to other NCO's (in gr 10, 11) they always call me stupid.

Here's an example:
[Some girl got some bandanas to bring onto a weekend activity to give to her group of cadets to wear and each was only $1]

Me: "Are you sure those arent eating napkins"

Her: [Smile] "Your so stupid"

Well one of my best guy friends has been calling me that cuz i have a wild imagination (not perv), so other ppl start calling me that and i notice funny things around my surrounding so sometimes i really funny so he calls me stupid cuz the thing thats funny is so stupid that it makes him laugh. (Example as shown above).

--> Would you guys say that im saying my funny quotes in a bad way (should i change it to a comment instead of a question)

---> I should stop making funny comments that are considered "stupid"

P.S. I nvr really talk to this girl and that was the first time i actually made her smile.
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Your over reacting. "Your so stupid," is not to be taken seriously.
If she seriously considered you to be stupid, she would act differently.
 
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Using C&F helps a guy seem confident an attractive to girls. What you're doing has built you up the wrong reputation, people think of you as a clown rather than ****y & funny. Maybe you should lay off from some of the Funny and just use the ****y attitude mostly, and hopefully you repair your image.
 
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If it's a girl calling you stupid, respond with "I know, but at least I'm good looking." If it's a guy, punch him in the stomach.
 
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make jokes, but just don't be such a goof about it. be cool and calm, and its best not to laugh at your own jokes too much
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Axe
If it's a girl calling you stupid, respond with "I know, but at least I'm good looking." If it's a guy, punch him in the stomach.
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hahah i like the at least im good looking responce.
 
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I disagree with the punching in the stomach response.

THAT will make you look "stupid," and insecure. Look around you, the times have changed; so has the notion of fighting.
 
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hey axe i jus realized.... whenyou say "i might be stupid but at least im good looking" are you implying that the girl is ugly?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Nexxus
i dont know one man who wouldn't throw a punch back for being punched anywhere without warning...
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Okay?













Then you do not know any MEN.
 
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