"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Calling me stupid...

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Well i am in highschool so i have to say i am a bit immature. Im actually quite the joker, and i lay on the ****y hard sometimes...

Anyways, people always call me stupid...i joined this organization called cadets and im an NCO (in a position of authority) and when i talk to other NCO's (in gr 10, 11) they always call me stupid.

Here's an example:
[Some girl got some bandanas to bring onto a weekend activity to give to her group of cadets to wear and each was only $1]

Me: "Are you sure those arent eating napkins"

Her: [Smile] "Your so stupid"

Well one of my best guy friends has been calling me that cuz i have a wild imagination (not perv), so other ppl start calling me that and i notice funny things around my surrounding so sometimes i really funny so he calls me stupid cuz the thing thats funny is so stupid that it makes him laugh. (Example as shown above).

--> Would you guys say that im saying my funny quotes in a bad way (should i change it to a comment instead of a question)

---> I should stop making funny comments that are considered "stupid"

P.S. I nvr really talk to this girl and that was the first time i actually made her smile.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
Well i am in highschool so i have to say i am a bit immature. Im actually quite the joker, and i lay on the ****y hard sometimes...

Anyways, people always call me stupid...i joined this organization called cadets and im an NCO (in a position of authority) and when i talk to other NCO's (in gr 10, 11) they always call me stupid.

Here's an example:
[Some girl got some bandanas to bring onto a weekend activity to give to her group of cadets to wear and each was only $1]

Me: "Are you sure those arent eating napkins"

Her: [Smile] "Your so stupid"

Well one of my best guy friends has been calling me that cuz i have a wild imagination (not perv), so other ppl start calling me that and i notice funny things around my surrounding so sometimes i really funny so he calls me stupid cuz the thing thats funny is so stupid that it makes him laugh. (Example as shown above).

--> Would you guys say that im saying my funny quotes in a bad way (should i change it to a comment instead of a question)

---> I should stop making funny comments that are considered "stupid"

P.S. I nvr really talk to this girl and that was the first time i actually made her smile.
Your over reacting. "Your so stupid," is not to be taken seriously.
If she seriously considered you to be stupid, she would act differently.
 

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Using C&F helps a guy seem confident an attractive to girls. What you're doing has built you up the wrong reputation, people think of you as a clown rather than ****y & funny. Maybe you should lay off from some of the Funny and just use the ****y attitude mostly, and hopefully you repair your image.
 

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If it's a girl calling you stupid, respond with "I know, but at least I'm good looking." If it's a guy, punch him in the stomach.
 

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make jokes, but just don't be such a goof about it. be cool and calm, and its best not to laugh at your own jokes too much
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Axe
If it's a girl calling you stupid, respond with "I know, but at least I'm good looking." If it's a guy, punch him in the stomach.
hahah i like the at least im good looking responce.
 

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I disagree with the punching in the stomach response.

THAT will make you look "stupid," and insecure. Look around you, the times have changed; so has the notion of fighting.
 

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hey axe i jus realized.... whenyou say "i might be stupid but at least im good looking" are you implying that the girl is ugly?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Nexxus
i dont know one man who wouldn't throw a punch back for being punched anywhere without warning...
Okay?













Then you do not know any MEN.
 
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