"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Calling and calling then *67!

nan3109

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So, I call this girl over and over and over again without a response. When I call the girl using *67, which blocks my phone number from being displayed, they answer. what the hell?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Grey Fox

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Well I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but I'll be blunt. She is not answering for a reason. Which means she's probably not interested, if you keep calling her you will come off as a stalker, if not already. Be a man, cut your losses and move on to the next girl.

-Grey Fox
 

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So, I call this girl over and over and over again without a response.
There's your problem right there. :)
 

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Seriously, I did the same thing with my chick, difference I called once without and then with. Moving on is vital.
 

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don't do *67.......if they wanted to hang out they would pick up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by nan3109
So, I call this girl over and over and over again without a response. When I call the girl using *67, which blocks my phone number from being displayed, they answer. what the hell?
1. Are you an idiot or something? Your what's wrong with this site. What world do you live in???

2. Mostly they call this stalking.

3. You obviously haven't read a dam thing on this site. You've broken a major rule in the book and your to dam stoopid to even know what it was and then to add to it you posted it for all to see.

4. Heads like you should be banned for a short period until you wizen up and read DA BIBLE or get some game.

5. Since you probably do not know what you did...let me break it down for you. "I call this girl over and over and over again"...get it...YOU DON'T DO THIS!!!! SEE WHAT HAPPENED MAN---...SHE AVOIDED YOUR CALLS!!!

You put this ho on a pedistal and she shyted down on you. I hope you learned your lesson.
 

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Few things:

1. Chicks might give you their number even if they don't want to date you. Or they may change their mind after giving it you. Some may even give you a fake number. They hate saying no and they hate confrontations.

2. You could watch Swingers the movie, and see Mike call over and over - finally the girl picks up and tells him never to call again. Even though she was interested in the first place, he freaked her out by calling so much.

3. Bottom line it and save yourself some time - she isn't interested.

4. Read the Bible some more.
 

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she eventually picked up, she was in her aunts house and couldnt get reception..... :-\ its all good in the hood
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by nan3109
she eventually picked up, she was in her aunts house and couldnt get reception..... :-\ its all good in the hood
sucker...:rolleyes:
 

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Ill have to agree on every point that Player Supreme made. Seriously, what the hell is wrong with you? LOL
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by nan3109
she eventually picked up, she was in her aunts house and couldnt get reception..... :-\ its all good in the hood
Wow, that's news to me! *67 increases reception? Sweet!:rolleyes:
 

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Re: Re: Calling and calling then *67!

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
1. Are you an idiot or something? Your what's wrong with this site.


He is actually perfect for the this site. He wouldn't be asking this derisory question if he has a clue about this situation. Probably he shouldn't be the one giving advice.


Anyway son (Nan3109), I hope you've learned your lesson. You're here long enough not to do this desperate act.
 

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Originally posted by nan3109
So, I call this girl over and over and over again without a response. When I call the girl using *67, which blocks my phone number from being displayed, they answer. what the hell?
If she was really interested in you, she would pick up...

The answer to this is simple... DELETE her number from your phone, and go find yourself someone else, u are wasting ur time with this girl!

And yes, i suggest reading the bible, and maybe a few articles found on the sosuave website.

Good luck for the future. ;)
 

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Well you got your answer, she is not interested in you. Voicemail/Phone calls is a very good gauge on interest/desperation for girls but guys are getting the low down on it too (the smart ones.)

You get your answer quick on how that person on the other end of the line feels about you as a person.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Common sense bro. Can't you put two and two together?

You called, she saw your number and purposely avoided your call. You put *67, she doesn't know who it is, and answers maybe even hoping it's a guy who she is interested in.

Bottom line, this chick sees you as a nuisance. Let her go.

And if you believe her crap about bad reception, then I got bridge for sale that I want you to see out in brooklyn.:p
 
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