"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Calling and calling then *67!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
-Grey Fox
Evil-Rom
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There's your problem right there.
Paid Laid & Made
Senior Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Player_Supreme
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1. Are you an idiot or something? Your what's wrong with this site. What world do you live in???
2. Mostly they call this stalking.
3. You obviously haven't read a dam thing on this site. You've broken a major rule in the book and your to dam stoopid to even know what it was and then to add to it you posted it for all to see.
4. Heads like you should be banned for a short period until you wizen up and read DA BIBLE or get some game.
5. Since you probably do not know what you did...let me break it down for you. "I call this girl over and over and over again"...get it...YOU DON'T DO THIS!!!! SEE WHAT HAPPENED MAN---...SHE AVOIDED YOUR CALLS!!!
You put this ho on a pedistal and she shyted down on you. I hope you learned your lesson.
1. Chicks might give you their number even if they don't want to date you. Or they may change their mind after giving it you. Some may even give you a fake number. They hate saying no and they hate confrontations.
2. You could watch Swingers the movie, and see Mike call over and over - finally the girl picks up and tells him never to call again. Even though she was interested in the first place, he freaked her out by calling so much.
3. Bottom line it and save yourself some time - she isn't interested.
4. Read the Bible some more.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
sucker...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Blurred Elevens
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Wow, that's news to me! *67 increases reception? Sweet!
Aztec
Master Don Juan
He is actually perfect for the this site. He wouldn't be asking this derisory question if he has a clue about this situation. Probably he shouldn't be the one giving advice.
Anyway son (Nan3109), I hope you've learned your lesson. You're here long enough not to do this desperate act.
If she was really interested in you, she would pick up...
The answer to this is simple... DELETE her number from your phone, and go find yourself someone else, u are wasting ur time with this girl!
And yes, i suggest reading the bible, and maybe a few articles found on the sosuave website.
Good luck for the future.
DeathDealer
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You get your answer quick on how that person on the other end of the line feels about you as a person.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You called, she saw your number and purposely avoided your call. You put *67, she doesn't know who it is, and answers maybe even hoping it's a guy who she is interested in.
Bottom line, this chick sees you as a nuisance. Let her go.
And if you believe her crap about bad reception, then I got bridge for sale that I want you to see out in brooklyn.