“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Calling all the 'Men' for a Mentality test

ducaro

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You have a good gf worthy of all the respect. you love her a lot and have invested great emotional value in her. all of a sudden, she likes another guys and cheats (all the way) on you! (lets face it anybody can be in this situation)

what would would do?

1. dump your chick
2. fight with the other guy for her

cheerio!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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synergy1

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investing time and energy into a girl is as valid as investing money in anything. A girl who has cheated on you in one way or another is a sunk cost, and spending any more emotional time thinking or doing anything in that department would be the worst thing you can do.

I would not even talk to her again, and just end it. Sooner you end it, the sooner you can move on and get another girl.
 
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Get myself either a playmate or FHM model with personality, better job and get richer, workout harder so I look better and then cut of ALL CONTACTS with my X. So the next time she sees me with my model GF and I see her with lozer, she'll realize how foolish she was and cut herself. Moving on and improving your life is the BEST comeback to anyone.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You said a girlfriend worthy of all respect........ Who cheats?

Cheating instantly removes all worthyness for respect, so flawed question. I wouldn't tolerate that **** - I'd tell her to fvck off and not regret it for a second. And then I'd probably go beat her new man up, just for sh1ts and giggles :)
 

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Even if someone has behaved in a manner that is deserving of respect...the second they cheat they have violated your trust and betrayed you...and are no longer deserving of your respect because they clearly aren't showing you that same respect.

You NEVER respect your partner MORE than you respect yourself...that is rule #1 in any relationship.

You end the relationship, period.

Once you end the relationship you do a thorough inventory on your own relationship shortcomings and identify the mistakes you have made, hold yourself accountable for those mistakes and learn from them so you don't repeat them. Once you've done that you can look towards moving on.
 

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stinkyape said:
You said a girlfriend worthy of all respect........ Who cheats?
Yes, 1+1=3... :rolleyes:
 
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