“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Calling all the 'Men' for a Mentality test

ducaro

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You have a good gf worthy of all the respect. you love her a lot and have invested great emotional value in her. all of a sudden, she likes another guys and cheats (all the way) on you! (lets face it anybody can be in this situation)

what would would do?

1. dump your chick
2. fight with the other guy for her

cheerio!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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synergy1

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investing time and energy into a girl is as valid as investing money in anything. A girl who has cheated on you in one way or another is a sunk cost, and spending any more emotional time thinking or doing anything in that department would be the worst thing you can do.

I would not even talk to her again, and just end it. Sooner you end it, the sooner you can move on and get another girl.
 
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Get myself either a playmate or FHM model with personality, better job and get richer, workout harder so I look better and then cut of ALL CONTACTS with my X. So the next time she sees me with my model GF and I see her with lozer, she'll realize how foolish she was and cut herself. Moving on and improving your life is the BEST comeback to anyone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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stinkyape

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You said a girlfriend worthy of all respect........ Who cheats?

Cheating instantly removes all worthyness for respect, so flawed question. I wouldn't tolerate that **** - I'd tell her to fvck off and not regret it for a second. And then I'd probably go beat her new man up, just for sh1ts and giggles :)
 

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Even if someone has behaved in a manner that is deserving of respect...the second they cheat they have violated your trust and betrayed you...and are no longer deserving of your respect because they clearly aren't showing you that same respect.

You NEVER respect your partner MORE than you respect yourself...that is rule #1 in any relationship.

You end the relationship, period.

Once you end the relationship you do a thorough inventory on your own relationship shortcomings and identify the mistakes you have made, hold yourself accountable for those mistakes and learn from them so you don't repeat them. Once you've done that you can look towards moving on.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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stinkyape said:
You said a girlfriend worthy of all respect........ Who cheats?
Yes, 1+1=3... :rolleyes:
 
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