"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Calling after sex

AlwaysExcel

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The search function hasn't been helping me lately.
I'm not looking for hard and fast rules but just comments on what ya'll do.

Do you guys call any sooner (or later) after sex than you would after a normal date? Or just let her call you?

And does the amount of days between sex and your call differ depending on whether you had sex with some girl you just met or some girl you've been working on for awhile for a LTR? If it differs, how long for each situation?
Thanks!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NRM

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Call the next day. Let her know that you weren't just using her for sex. There is a 3 day to 1 week rule when it comes to setting up dates and dates in general. But she basically just gave her body to you and that's a big physical thing. Always call the next day and just talk to her so she knows you weren't just fucking her for a good fuck.
 

ali_g

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Yes, call after you've ****ed her.

BTW I was testing the censor.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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