"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Calling after sex

A

AlwaysExcel

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2004
Messages
293
Reaction score
0
Location
Midwest USA
The search function hasn't been helping me lately.
I'm not looking for hard and fast rules but just comments on what ya'll do.

Do you guys call any sooner (or later) after sex than you would after a normal date? Or just let her call you?

And does the amount of days between sex and your call differ depending on whether you had sex with some girl you just met or some girl you've been working on for awhile for a LTR? If it differs, how long for each situation?
Thanks!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

N

NRM

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 6, 2004
Messages
563
Reaction score
0
Call the next day. Let her know that you weren't just using her for sex. There is a 3 day to 1 week rule when it comes to setting up dates and dates in general. But she basically just gave her body to you and that's a big physical thing. Always call the next day and just talk to her so she knows you weren't just fucking her for a good fuck.
 
A

ali_g

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 15, 2002
Messages
199
Reaction score
0
Yes, call after you've ****ed her.

BTW I was testing the censor.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top