"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Calling after sex

AlwaysExcel

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The search function hasn't been helping me lately.
I'm not looking for hard and fast rules but just comments on what ya'll do.

Do you guys call any sooner (or later) after sex than you would after a normal date? Or just let her call you?

And does the amount of days between sex and your call differ depending on whether you had sex with some girl you just met or some girl you've been working on for awhile for a LTR? If it differs, how long for each situation?
Thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NRM

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Call the next day. Let her know that you weren't just using her for sex. There is a 3 day to 1 week rule when it comes to setting up dates and dates in general. But she basically just gave her body to you and that's a big physical thing. Always call the next day and just talk to her so she knows you weren't just fucking her for a good fuck.
 

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Yes, call after you've ****ed her.

BTW I was testing the censor.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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