"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
calling a woman when she takes long to reply to text
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MoreThanSmooth
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Unless it's about plans. If it's about a date or something important, then call and confirm either way.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MoreThanSmooth
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Err no, I advocate not f*cking this woman if you don't want to f*ck her. You don't trust or like her but you're screwing her? Sounds like she's got you wrapped round her pinkie and she's clowning you.
Also, we hadn't decided a time to meet this morning so in any case we would have had to chat before meeting.
Dash Riprock
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Dude, who he f*uck cares if she takes a few hours to reply? It's like you're sitting around, have no life, no options, totally beta, waiting for a girl to text you back. And when when she doesn't--immediately--you go nuclear AFC.
I take hours to reply sometimes. Sometimes days. Because I have a life and don't give a s*hit. Unless it's a confirmation for a date or similar. JHC, you have thin skin.
Are you a snowflake or something? If not, prove it, and man up. Tough love I know, but I see this s*hit on SS all the time: "She hasn't replied in 30 minutes, I'm being dumped, oh no!!!"
C'mon man.
TheProspect
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These are the titles of your last 3 threads:
- "How do I stop raging over hot women?"
- "Should I reply to her message?"
- "What should you do when a women insults you?"
...and now you're lost again and asking what to do when a "skank" goes 40 minutes without replying to you.
Lol maybe just turn your phone off and go for a walk dude, you don't seem like a busy guy
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
marmel75
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Oh yeah? Have you been sitting outside her window stalking her too? When did she get in the shower? How long was she in there?
Or were you watching through the window as another dude pounded her senseless wishing it was you in there instead?