"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Calling a girl by her name via text.

pvf94

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For example... first text...

"Hey ashley :)"

Is this alright to do? I know its music to my ears when somebody says my name or texts it. even "Nick :D" or something similar.

Whats your take?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sounds like you're over-analyzing something that will have no effect on whether you do or don't get with this girl.
 

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Yea dude eliminate your "giving a fvck" and just say what you think is right. Although I have thought about this before as well now I would probably use nicknames for her that I make up it gets a better reaction since I'm not taking her seriously at all.

ps. Nick? :D
 

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Simple question my man. Figured it be a tid bit of spice to the usual "hey/whatsup/hi/yo"

Thank's for your help though.
 

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This applies to girls I have just meet recently/don't have a nickname for.

you said my name!

*wags tail*

haha
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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just call her bro
 

pvf94

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That's not the issue! haha, I don't have a real issue with getting dates and all....usually starts off with a text either way. I do my calling to set up a day and time. text for a quick flirt.
 

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same as sales... say their name. better than not, but that doesnt mean it has a big impact.
 

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Oh my god didn't you know? Saying their name in the first text message is 'the magic pill'.
 

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damn I ask for a little input and get a little d!ck up my ass from everyone lol. thanks sosuave it felt good ;)

I'm not retarded I do realize its not that big of a deal if any but it was a thought that crossed my mind why not ask?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i think it sounds better if you call her miss ashley or mrs ashley. It really depends on her status.
 

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Someone on here shared the knowledge that calling some1 by their name has a magic captivating effect, which is used in sales and business etc. Props to whoever came up with this.

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Give her a nickname. Its great. Ashley is a great name to make nicknames. Ashbear, ash, ash-hole, ashbang, flashbang, etc.
 
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