"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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caller ID on cell phones

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The DJ bootcamp says to get your number blocked from caller ID, or use *67 to block caller ID on individual calls. The only phone I have is my cell phone, and most girls who give me their numbers give me their cell phone number.

Does anyone know if *67 works for cell phones the same way that it works for land line phones?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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On my cell, dialing *69 doesn't work, but there is an option in one of the menus that allows you to call anonymously.

I don't think this is really necessary though. If you always call a girl from an Unknown number, she is eventually going to begin to associate an Unknown number with you calling.
 

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Well, you don't ALWAYS use an unknown number, just the first time or two. This way, if you don't get through to her the first time, she doesn't know you've attempted to call her. (If she knows you've called too many times, it makes you seem desperate).
 

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You know, strange, here people ages 14 - 28 or so don't even use the normal phone when contacting each other, just the cellphone. So here you always get the cellphone from a chick, so the game's a bit different than on the normal phone.
If you block your number it kind of turns out weird, because praytell - why would you want her not to see your number? Are you some kind of weirdo? Well!? Are you!?!?
So here with cellphones it's like this, you call her once, if she doesn't answer, don't call again, if she's interested, she'll call back.
 

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Thats a dumb idea....how she gonna know if its you calling? Dude thats way OVER DJ'ing a girl....to extreme
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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