"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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caller ID on cell phones

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The DJ bootcamp says to get your number blocked from caller ID, or use *67 to block caller ID on individual calls. The only phone I have is my cell phone, and most girls who give me their numbers give me their cell phone number.

Does anyone know if *67 works for cell phones the same way that it works for land line phones?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Interpol

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On my cell, dialing *69 doesn't work, but there is an option in one of the menus that allows you to call anonymously.

I don't think this is really necessary though. If you always call a girl from an Unknown number, she is eventually going to begin to associate an Unknown number with you calling.
 

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Well, you don't ALWAYS use an unknown number, just the first time or two. This way, if you don't get through to her the first time, she doesn't know you've attempted to call her. (If she knows you've called too many times, it makes you seem desperate).
 

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You know, strange, here people ages 14 - 28 or so don't even use the normal phone when contacting each other, just the cellphone. So here you always get the cellphone from a chick, so the game's a bit different than on the normal phone.
If you block your number it kind of turns out weird, because praytell - why would you want her not to see your number? Are you some kind of weirdo? Well!? Are you!?!?
So here with cellphones it's like this, you call her once, if she doesn't answer, don't call again, if she's interested, she'll call back.
 

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Thats a dumb idea....how she gonna know if its you calling? Dude thats way OVER DJ'ing a girl....to extreme
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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