"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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caller ID on cell phones

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The DJ bootcamp says to get your number blocked from caller ID, or use *67 to block caller ID on individual calls. The only phone I have is my cell phone, and most girls who give me their numbers give me their cell phone number.

Does anyone know if *67 works for cell phones the same way that it works for land line phones?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Interpol

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On my cell, dialing *69 doesn't work, but there is an option in one of the menus that allows you to call anonymously.

I don't think this is really necessary though. If you always call a girl from an Unknown number, she is eventually going to begin to associate an Unknown number with you calling.
 

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Well, you don't ALWAYS use an unknown number, just the first time or two. This way, if you don't get through to her the first time, she doesn't know you've attempted to call her. (If she knows you've called too many times, it makes you seem desperate).
 

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You know, strange, here people ages 14 - 28 or so don't even use the normal phone when contacting each other, just the cellphone. So here you always get the cellphone from a chick, so the game's a bit different than on the normal phone.
If you block your number it kind of turns out weird, because praytell - why would you want her not to see your number? Are you some kind of weirdo? Well!? Are you!?!?
So here with cellphones it's like this, you call her once, if she doesn't answer, don't call again, if she's interested, she'll call back.
 

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Thats a dumb idea....how she gonna know if its you calling? Dude thats way OVER DJ'ing a girl....to extreme
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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