"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Called Next Day & Got Rejected!? Advice Please..

Supert5

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So meet this chick at a club, we danced then made out, pretty much had a good time and all. Call her the next day to meet up with her again but she says she too busy with work and everything. Then jets and says she gonna take a shower?? Um... What is she playing??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pimp-sicle

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First of all you met this w-hore at a club.
Second of all, you should've waited 2-4 days before calling and made sure those days fall on a Sunday-Wednesday.

And lastly, don't sweat it, she was just looking for some drunk fun and you were it for the night. Don't expect to turn a 'ho into a house wife.

Not only that, you saved time and effort by getting the run around right away.

So before you make your next post in a few days asking if you should call her again, I'll tell you right now, please for the love of God DON'T CALL AGAIN!!!! If she wants you she'll call you now that you made the 1st contact.






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DJ Alejandro

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too desperate.

too excited appears too desperate.
 

Hurri

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yea, u can't call the next day, definitely no good. i number closed 2 best friends on saturday nite/sunday morning. I'm waiting till wednesday to call up one of them. the plan is to game her a little over the phone, and then at the high note, set up a meet, once she's there, she's fuked!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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zerocelcius

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hmm

alright you called back the next day....
you met her at a club.....
you are asking what to do.......

The emotions that fueled your writting this are your issue not this girl! Realize what it is about this situation that motivates you and figure them out. Run the night over through your head and see what worked and take that for what it is worth.

Now like said before don't call her. Ever! Not in a week not in a few days. NOT the next day. This isn't a rule it is a result. You called her the next day.... the only option now is let her call.

Over all you should be happy with the experience, and learn from what you did right to get her to give up the number and the lip wrestling moves. anyway I am tired...

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz......
 
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