"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Called Next Day & Got Rejected!? Advice Please..

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So meet this chick at a club, we danced then made out, pretty much had a good time and all. Call her the next day to meet up with her again but she says she too busy with work and everything. Then jets and says she gonna take a shower?? Um... What is she playing??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First of all you met this w-hore at a club.
Second of all, you should've waited 2-4 days before calling and made sure those days fall on a Sunday-Wednesday.

And lastly, don't sweat it, she was just looking for some drunk fun and you were it for the night. Don't expect to turn a 'ho into a house wife.

Not only that, you saved time and effort by getting the run around right away.

So before you make your next post in a few days asking if you should call her again, I'll tell you right now, please for the love of God DON'T CALL AGAIN!!!! If she wants you she'll call you now that you made the 1st contact.






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DJ Alejandro

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too desperate.

too excited appears too desperate.
 
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yea, u can't call the next day, definitely no good. i number closed 2 best friends on saturday nite/sunday morning. I'm waiting till wednesday to call up one of them. the plan is to game her a little over the phone, and then at the high note, set up a meet, once she's there, she's fuked!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hmm

alright you called back the next day....
you met her at a club.....
you are asking what to do.......

The emotions that fueled your writting this are your issue not this girl! Realize what it is about this situation that motivates you and figure them out. Run the night over through your head and see what worked and take that for what it is worth.

Now like said before don't call her. Ever! Not in a week not in a few days. NOT the next day. This isn't a rule it is a result. You called her the next day.... the only option now is let her call.

Over all you should be happy with the experience, and learn from what you did right to get her to give up the number and the lip wrestling moves. anyway I am tired...

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz......
 
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