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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Called Next Day & Got Rejected!? Advice Please..

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So meet this chick at a club, we danced then made out, pretty much had a good time and all. Call her the next day to meet up with her again but she says she too busy with work and everything. Then jets and says she gonna take a shower?? Um... What is she playing??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First of all you met this w-hore at a club.
Second of all, you should've waited 2-4 days before calling and made sure those days fall on a Sunday-Wednesday.

And lastly, don't sweat it, she was just looking for some drunk fun and you were it for the night. Don't expect to turn a 'ho into a house wife.

Not only that, you saved time and effort by getting the run around right away.

So before you make your next post in a few days asking if you should call her again, I'll tell you right now, please for the love of God DON'T CALL AGAIN!!!! If she wants you she'll call you now that you made the 1st contact.






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too desperate.

too excited appears too desperate.
 
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yea, u can't call the next day, definitely no good. i number closed 2 best friends on saturday nite/sunday morning. I'm waiting till wednesday to call up one of them. the plan is to game her a little over the phone, and then at the high note, set up a meet, once she's there, she's fuked!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hmm

alright you called back the next day....
you met her at a club.....
you are asking what to do.......

The emotions that fueled your writting this are your issue not this girl! Realize what it is about this situation that motivates you and figure them out. Run the night over through your head and see what worked and take that for what it is worth.

Now like said before don't call her. Ever! Not in a week not in a few days. NOT the next day. This isn't a rule it is a result. You called her the next day.... the only option now is let her call.

Over all you should be happy with the experience, and learn from what you did right to get her to give up the number and the lip wrestling moves. anyway I am tired...

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz......
 
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