"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Call or text after getting # on cold approach?
- Thread starter tihash
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You want as much *personal* interaction as possible. So obviously face-to-face is best, then phone call, then text/IM
And when you call her - don't try to create a long telephone conversation with her, just call her to set up the date.
The goal is to get her to meet you in person - then you work your magic.
Colossus
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With texting you can flirt and use some witty verbal game, break the ice a bit, then call. Plus, texting is a bit more exciting. Women love to read and write.
They both work, you just have to get a feel for when to use them.
Georgepithyou
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Most younger girls these days dont like to call
Suave88
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It is best to call. Don't leave a message. If she does not pick up, come back to us. Do not double call. Best days to call Monday and Tuesday based on the antidump machine. Call to set a date no chit chat BS.
What is the age group?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
EyeOnThePrize
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If you have to ask then just call and get it over with. Texting is easy when you don't worry about stuff like this, when you come from abundance.
You're older and more experienced, act like it. Show effortlessness.