"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey, so I've gone out with this girl twice already and nothing has happened...I'm supposed to go have lunch with her in DC on saturday. Last we talked was on Sunday, and I haven't called her since then. Should I call sometime tomorrow? I guess if I did I wouldn't be really calling to "confirm" but I would say something like I'm going to be like 10 minutes late...how would you guys handle it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you don't have to call if you're gonna be 10 mins late, she'll wait.
 
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a cf line i use to great effect

i made a date with a girl who said, 'i'm totally forgetful, let me write down the time of the date.'

i was like, ''don't worry, i'll call ya on the day.''

i texted; ''reminder; lunch with really cool guy.''

she called me back immediately saying, ''so who is this cool guy'' she was so delighted i have used it a few times since then.

flakage count when i do= ZERO.

give it a go.

JJ
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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DJMaC23 said:
Hey, so I've gone out with this girl twice already and nothing has happened...I'm supposed to go have lunch with her in DC on saturday. Last we talked was on Sunday, and I haven't called her since then. Should I call sometime tomorrow? I guess if I did I wouldn't be really calling to "confirm" but I would say something like I'm going to be like 10 minutes late...how would you guys handle it?
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So are you planning on being late a couple of days in advance?
 
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ammmmmmmm..... what the fck..... u guys didnt catch something really really wrong here!!!!

went out twice and nothing happend......... you should have kissed or attempted to kiss her on first date.. and for sure kissed her by 2nd...
YES DUDE... u think it might be awkward and impossible, but it only seems that way cause you believe in it...

absolutley no reason for you not to atleast get a smack on the lips by 2nd date man!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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