"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJMaC23

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Hey, so I've gone out with this girl twice already and nothing has happened...I'm supposed to go have lunch with her in DC on saturday. Last we talked was on Sunday, and I haven't called her since then. Should I call sometime tomorrow? I guess if I did I wouldn't be really calling to "confirm" but I would say something like I'm going to be like 10 minutes late...how would you guys handle it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sexxyback

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you don't have to call if you're gonna be 10 mins late, she'll wait.
 

Jay Jay

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a cf line i use to great effect

i made a date with a girl who said, 'i'm totally forgetful, let me write down the time of the date.'

i was like, ''don't worry, i'll call ya on the day.''

i texted; ''reminder; lunch with really cool guy.''

she called me back immediately saying, ''so who is this cool guy'' she was so delighted i have used it a few times since then.

flakage count when i do= ZERO.

give it a go.

JJ
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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DJMaC23 said:
Hey, so I've gone out with this girl twice already and nothing has happened...I'm supposed to go have lunch with her in DC on saturday. Last we talked was on Sunday, and I haven't called her since then. Should I call sometime tomorrow? I guess if I did I wouldn't be really calling to "confirm" but I would say something like I'm going to be like 10 minutes late...how would you guys handle it?
So are you planning on being late a couple of days in advance?
 

TruthHurts

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ammmmmmmm..... what the fck..... u guys didnt catch something really really wrong here!!!!

went out twice and nothing happend......... you should have kissed or attempted to kiss her on first date.. and for sure kissed her by 2nd...
YES DUDE... u think it might be awkward and impossible, but it only seems that way cause you believe in it...

absolutley no reason for you not to atleast get a smack on the lips by 2nd date man!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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