"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Call Back... Drunk mistake -.-

Bussey

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Alright, haven't been on here for ages... but yea, been doing great in college with the ladies. Anyways, I called this girl I met.. (Got her # on the elevator in residence 3 days ago). I called her today at 5 and she was really surprised and excited that I called, told her Its easier to talk to her in person so in a couple hours I'd come down and visit her in her room. She was going to the mall, and so I told her I was busy and she said she'd call me when she got back. Started drinking with some buddies and my roommate and his girlfriend pressured me to call her room at 11. So I called shortly before 11 and she wasn't there.

I was drunk out of my mind, now its 1 AM, she still hasn't called and I've sobered up.. Not really concerned about her calling back cuz I've met tons of girls at Rez, but should I try this girl once more in a few days, or just leave her too it? Out of all the girls I met, she was the one I clicked most with so thats why I am asking, any other girl and it would have immediately put her on the backburner.

Anyways, let me know what you guys think.

Ciao
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TesuqueRed

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wait

you'll probably meet her in the elevator again

sober, hopefully

no excuses, no apologies, just pick up where you left off
 
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