"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Call a girl out on maki out with another guy?

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So I met this girl in 1 of my classes and asked her to get lunch and we had a sweet hour long lunch where I got her number and she showed interest and whatever.. This was in the afternoon. When I went out last night I think I saw her making out with another guy at a party..

I want to ask her for dinner and drinks today but when I ask her, would it maybe be good to call her out on seeing her making out with this random guy to show that I don't care (which I don't) and tell her something like I'm obviously more fun than this guy
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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kindasuave said:
So I met this girl in 1 of my classes and asked her to get lunch and we had a sweet hour long lunch where I got her number and she showed interest and whatever.. This was in the afternoon. When I went out last night I think I saw her making out with another guy at a party..

I want to ask her for dinner and drinks today but when I ask her, would it maybe be good to call her out on seeing her making out with this random guy to show that I don't care (which I don't) and tell her something like I'm obviously more fun than this guy
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Who cares if she was, you two aren't dating , trying to control her already? Lol

Don't tell her, show her with your actions your fun in general.

And you obviously care because you made this post :p
 
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why would you want to mention her making out with another guy if you don't care about it in the first place lol?
don't bring it up at all
 
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Haha idk I thought somehow maybe I could take advantage of it, but thinking about it a little more it was a really stupid idea
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don't say a word about it. Nothing good can come from it.

If you admit you saw her making out with another dude, she will see you as a creepy stalker watching her every move.

We know that's not actually true, but she will assume the worst.
 
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Are you really going to buy her dinner and drinks after seeing that? Did she have sex with the guy or will she continue to see him while you buy stuff for her?
 
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Droz88 said:
Are you really going to buy her dinner and drinks after seeing that? Did she have sex with the guy or will she continue to see him while you buy stuff for her?
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lol exactly my thought.... while he dates her the other dude will ask him how his dvick tastes LOL!
 
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