"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Call a girl out on maki out with another guy?

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So I met this girl in 1 of my classes and asked her to get lunch and we had a sweet hour long lunch where I got her number and she showed interest and whatever.. This was in the afternoon. When I went out last night I think I saw her making out with another guy at a party..

I want to ask her for dinner and drinks today but when I ask her, would it maybe be good to call her out on seeing her making out with this random guy to show that I don't care (which I don't) and tell her something like I'm obviously more fun than this guy
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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kindasuave said:
So I met this girl in 1 of my classes and asked her to get lunch and we had a sweet hour long lunch where I got her number and she showed interest and whatever.. This was in the afternoon. When I went out last night I think I saw her making out with another guy at a party..

I want to ask her for dinner and drinks today but when I ask her, would it maybe be good to call her out on seeing her making out with this random guy to show that I don't care (which I don't) and tell her something like I'm obviously more fun than this guy
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Who cares if she was, you two aren't dating , trying to control her already? Lol

Don't tell her, show her with your actions your fun in general.

And you obviously care because you made this post :p
 
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why would you want to mention her making out with another guy if you don't care about it in the first place lol?
don't bring it up at all
 
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Haha idk I thought somehow maybe I could take advantage of it, but thinking about it a little more it was a really stupid idea
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't say a word about it. Nothing good can come from it.

If you admit you saw her making out with another dude, she will see you as a creepy stalker watching her every move.

We know that's not actually true, but she will assume the worst.
 
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Are you really going to buy her dinner and drinks after seeing that? Did she have sex with the guy or will she continue to see him while you buy stuff for her?
 
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Droz88 said:
Are you really going to buy her dinner and drinks after seeing that? Did she have sex with the guy or will she continue to see him while you buy stuff for her?
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lol exactly my thought.... while he dates her the other dude will ask him how his dvick tastes LOL!
 
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