"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Call a girl out on maki out with another guy?

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So I met this girl in 1 of my classes and asked her to get lunch and we had a sweet hour long lunch where I got her number and she showed interest and whatever.. This was in the afternoon. When I went out last night I think I saw her making out with another guy at a party..

I want to ask her for dinner and drinks today but when I ask her, would it maybe be good to call her out on seeing her making out with this random guy to show that I don't care (which I don't) and tell her something like I'm obviously more fun than this guy
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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kindasuave said:
So I met this girl in 1 of my classes and asked her to get lunch and we had a sweet hour long lunch where I got her number and she showed interest and whatever.. This was in the afternoon. When I went out last night I think I saw her making out with another guy at a party..

I want to ask her for dinner and drinks today but when I ask her, would it maybe be good to call her out on seeing her making out with this random guy to show that I don't care (which I don't) and tell her something like I'm obviously more fun than this guy
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Who cares if she was, you two aren't dating , trying to control her already? Lol

Don't tell her, show her with your actions your fun in general.

And you obviously care because you made this post :p
 
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why would you want to mention her making out with another guy if you don't care about it in the first place lol?
don't bring it up at all
 
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Haha idk I thought somehow maybe I could take advantage of it, but thinking about it a little more it was a really stupid idea
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't say a word about it. Nothing good can come from it.

If you admit you saw her making out with another dude, she will see you as a creepy stalker watching her every move.

We know that's not actually true, but she will assume the worst.
 
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Are you really going to buy her dinner and drinks after seeing that? Did she have sex with the guy or will she continue to see him while you buy stuff for her?
 
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Droz88 said:
Are you really going to buy her dinner and drinks after seeing that? Did she have sex with the guy or will she continue to see him while you buy stuff for her?
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lol exactly my thought.... while he dates her the other dude will ask him how his dvick tastes LOL!
 
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