Souled_Separate
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Hey what's going on. I'm looking for fellow DJ's in the Calgary /Southern Alta region. If your here shout something out.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Calgary Alberta Canada?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I'm in Calgary
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
trippychip
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For all you guys for calgary id love to talk bout some really unique places to take dates. I want all the ideas you got.
Ok ill start,
For something funny and light id say either Loose Moose theatre Company, or YUk Yuks, For nice surroundings i like cafe med(even though it gets seriously crowded sometimes) and beatniqs cafe.
Steeps tea house is nice in the winter, And pretty much anywhere down 17th works out.
Ok ill start,
For something funny and light id say either Loose Moose theatre Company, or YUk Yuks, For nice surroundings i like cafe med(even though it gets seriously crowded sometimes) and beatniqs cafe.
Steeps tea house is nice in the winter, And pretty much anywhere down 17th works out.
trippychip:
Those are some place i should check out. As for some unique places to take dates.. hmm. That could be a tough one. I like the cholcate place forget what its called. It's of 17th & 14 Street... But its not really that unique.
I'll try to think of some better places when i have some free time. School is damn crazy as of late. So i haven't had time for anything else..
Those are some place i should check out. As for some unique places to take dates.. hmm. That could be a tough one. I like the cholcate place forget what its called. It's of 17th & 14 Street... But its not really that unique.
I'll try to think of some better places when i have some free time. School is damn crazy as of late. So i haven't had time for anything else..
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for everyone here,
What if it's too cold outside?
And where do you usually go sarging?
What if it's too cold outside?
And where do you usually go sarging?
Love me tender...
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Calgary LAIR
Just to let anyone know who is searching for wings in calgary that there is a lair in place that is always looking for new people to join. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calgarysocialgroup You will need a yahoo account to get in,send a E-mail to elantraman2002 requesting to join. We have bi-weekly meetings and sarge nights so if you are serious about making process get involved.
Just to let anyone know who is searching for wings in calgary that there is a lair in place that is always looking for new people to join. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calgarysocialgroup You will need a yahoo account to get in,send a E-mail to elantraman2002 requesting to join. We have bi-weekly meetings and sarge nights so if you are serious about making process get involved.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Love me tender...
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New LAIR website
We are no longer using the yahoo website,check out the new site at calgarysocial.net Same LAIR,new site!
We are no longer using the yahoo website,check out the new site at calgarysocial.net Same LAIR,new site!