Souled_Separate
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Hey what's going on. I'm looking for fellow DJ's in the Calgary /Southern Alta region. If your here shout something out.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Calgary Alberta Canada?
- Thread starter Souled_Separate
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I'm in Calgary
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
trippychip
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For all you guys for calgary id love to talk bout some really unique places to take dates. I want all the ideas you got.
Ok ill start,
For something funny and light id say either Loose Moose theatre Company, or YUk Yuks, For nice surroundings i like cafe med(even though it gets seriously crowded sometimes) and beatniqs cafe.
Steeps tea house is nice in the winter, And pretty much anywhere down 17th works out.
Ok ill start,
For something funny and light id say either Loose Moose theatre Company, or YUk Yuks, For nice surroundings i like cafe med(even though it gets seriously crowded sometimes) and beatniqs cafe.
Steeps tea house is nice in the winter, And pretty much anywhere down 17th works out.
trippychip:
Those are some place i should check out. As for some unique places to take dates.. hmm. That could be a tough one. I like the cholcate place forget what its called. It's of 17th & 14 Street... But its not really that unique.
I'll try to think of some better places when i have some free time. School is damn crazy as of late. So i haven't had time for anything else..
Those are some place i should check out. As for some unique places to take dates.. hmm. That could be a tough one. I like the cholcate place forget what its called. It's of 17th & 14 Street... But its not really that unique.
I'll try to think of some better places when i have some free time. School is damn crazy as of late. So i haven't had time for anything else..
I_Only_Live_Once
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for everyone here,
What if it's too cold outside?
And where do you usually go sarging?
What if it's too cold outside?
And where do you usually go sarging?
Love me tender...
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Calgary LAIR
Just to let anyone know who is searching for wings in calgary that there is a lair in place that is always looking for new people to join. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calgarysocialgroup You will need a yahoo account to get in,send a E-mail to elantraman2002 requesting to join. We have bi-weekly meetings and sarge nights so if you are serious about making process get involved.
Just to let anyone know who is searching for wings in calgary that there is a lair in place that is always looking for new people to join. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calgarysocialgroup You will need a yahoo account to get in,send a E-mail to elantraman2002 requesting to join. We have bi-weekly meetings and sarge nights so if you are serious about making process get involved.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Love me tender...
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New LAIR website
We are no longer using the yahoo website,check out the new site at calgarysocial.net Same LAIR,new site!
We are no longer using the yahoo website,check out the new site at calgarysocial.net Same LAIR,new site!