Souled_Separate
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Hey what's going on. I'm looking for fellow DJ's in the Calgary /Southern Alta region. If your here shout something out.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Calgary Alberta Canada?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I'm in Calgary
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
trippychip
Don Juan
For all you guys for calgary id love to talk bout some really unique places to take dates. I want all the ideas you got.
Ok ill start,
For something funny and light id say either Loose Moose theatre Company, or YUk Yuks, For nice surroundings i like cafe med(even though it gets seriously crowded sometimes) and beatniqs cafe.
Steeps tea house is nice in the winter, And pretty much anywhere down 17th works out.
Ok ill start,
For something funny and light id say either Loose Moose theatre Company, or YUk Yuks, For nice surroundings i like cafe med(even though it gets seriously crowded sometimes) and beatniqs cafe.
Steeps tea house is nice in the winter, And pretty much anywhere down 17th works out.
trippychip:
Those are some place i should check out. As for some unique places to take dates.. hmm. That could be a tough one. I like the cholcate place forget what its called. It's of 17th & 14 Street... But its not really that unique.
I'll try to think of some better places when i have some free time. School is damn crazy as of late. So i haven't had time for anything else..
Those are some place i should check out. As for some unique places to take dates.. hmm. That could be a tough one. I like the cholcate place forget what its called. It's of 17th & 14 Street... But its not really that unique.
I'll try to think of some better places when i have some free time. School is damn crazy as of late. So i haven't had time for anything else..
I_Only_Live_Once
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for everyone here,
What if it's too cold outside?
And where do you usually go sarging?
What if it's too cold outside?
And where do you usually go sarging?
Love me tender...
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Calgary LAIR
Just to let anyone know who is searching for wings in calgary that there is a lair in place that is always looking for new people to join. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calgarysocialgroup You will need a yahoo account to get in,send a E-mail to elantraman2002 requesting to join. We have bi-weekly meetings and sarge nights so if you are serious about making process get involved.
Just to let anyone know who is searching for wings in calgary that there is a lair in place that is always looking for new people to join. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calgarysocialgroup You will need a yahoo account to get in,send a E-mail to elantraman2002 requesting to join. We have bi-weekly meetings and sarge nights so if you are serious about making process get involved.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Love me tender...
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New LAIR website
We are no longer using the yahoo website,check out the new site at calgarysocial.net Same LAIR,new site!
We are no longer using the yahoo website,check out the new site at calgarysocial.net Same LAIR,new site!