Souled_Separate
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Hey what's going on. I'm looking for fellow DJ's in the Calgary /Southern Alta region. If your here shout something out.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Calgary Alberta Canada?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
I'm in Calgary
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
trippychip
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For all you guys for calgary id love to talk bout some really unique places to take dates. I want all the ideas you got.
Ok ill start,
For something funny and light id say either Loose Moose theatre Company, or YUk Yuks, For nice surroundings i like cafe med(even though it gets seriously crowded sometimes) and beatniqs cafe.
Steeps tea house is nice in the winter, And pretty much anywhere down 17th works out.
Ok ill start,
For something funny and light id say either Loose Moose theatre Company, or YUk Yuks, For nice surroundings i like cafe med(even though it gets seriously crowded sometimes) and beatniqs cafe.
Steeps tea house is nice in the winter, And pretty much anywhere down 17th works out.
trippychip:
Those are some place i should check out. As for some unique places to take dates.. hmm. That could be a tough one. I like the cholcate place forget what its called. It's of 17th & 14 Street... But its not really that unique.
I'll try to think of some better places when i have some free time. School is damn crazy as of late. So i haven't had time for anything else..
Those are some place i should check out. As for some unique places to take dates.. hmm. That could be a tough one. I like the cholcate place forget what its called. It's of 17th & 14 Street... But its not really that unique.
I'll try to think of some better places when i have some free time. School is damn crazy as of late. So i haven't had time for anything else..
I_Only_Live_Once
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for everyone here,
What if it's too cold outside?
And where do you usually go sarging?
What if it's too cold outside?
And where do you usually go sarging?
Love me tender...
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Calgary LAIR
Just to let anyone know who is searching for wings in calgary that there is a lair in place that is always looking for new people to join. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calgarysocialgroup You will need a yahoo account to get in,send a E-mail to elantraman2002 requesting to join. We have bi-weekly meetings and sarge nights so if you are serious about making process get involved.
Just to let anyone know who is searching for wings in calgary that there is a lair in place that is always looking for new people to join. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/calgarysocialgroup You will need a yahoo account to get in,send a E-mail to elantraman2002 requesting to join. We have bi-weekly meetings and sarge nights so if you are serious about making process get involved.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Love me tender...
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New LAIR website
We are no longer using the yahoo website,check out the new site at calgarysocial.net Same LAIR,new site!
We are no longer using the yahoo website,check out the new site at calgarysocial.net Same LAIR,new site!