just been using it a lot lately. always atleast get the girl to like me now. seems that using it however makes you feel like in a way your trying to prove yourself to them therefore making them the prize. whats everyone else think the most powerful form of seduction is? and do many others out there use it?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
C/F whats you opinion
- Thread starter jocca
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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CF&F.
That's why I live by.
That's why I live by.
Just stick it in here and there, bust her balls, it's like a neg, except somewhat more obvious, but more funny.jocca said:so if its what you live by can you give us just small example of what kind of things youd say when round a hb. just curious is all as i think iv got it pretty much down
Just little statements to keep your frame of the prize.
"Aren't you going to open the door for me?"
"Stop undressing me with your eyes"
"Are you always this forward?"
"Are you always like that? Or is it just because I'm around?"
"It's ok, i already like you, you can stop trying to impress me." (Loved this one)
Get the idea? Just slip them here and there, wherever it's appropriate.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Get off of the mindset of feeling you need to prove your value and focus on displaying your value. They may seem like the same thing on the surface but they are delineated by the manner and the amount of effort you put forth.jocca said:just been using it a lot lately. always atleast get the girl to like me now. seems that using it however makes you feel like in a way your trying to prove yourself to them therefore making them the prize. whats everyone else think the most powerful form of seduction is? and do many others out there use it?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Excellent post.Francisco d'Anconia said:Get off of the mindset of feeling you need to prove your value and focus on displaying your value. They may seem like the same thing on the surface but they are delineated by the manner and the amount of effort you put forth.
I might add that the most powerful form of Seduction is a NATURAL seduction. A seduction that is built upon you creating your own life and your own desires and going after those desires.
I would tell you to STOP being "****y and funny" and START being "fun". There is a difference. Fun is natural. ****y isn't. Fun is attractive, ****y is repulsive.