"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just been using it a lot lately. always atleast get the girl to like me now. seems that using it however makes you feel like in a way your trying to prove yourself to them therefore making them the prize. whats everyone else think the most powerful form of seduction is? and do many others out there use it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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so if its what you live by can you give us just small example of what kind of things youd say when round a hb. just curious is all as i think iv got it pretty much down
 
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so if its what you live by can you give us just small example of what kind of things youd say when round a hb. just curious is all as i think iv got it pretty much down
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Just stick it in here and there, bust her balls, it's like a neg, except somewhat more obvious, but more funny.

Just little statements to keep your frame of the prize.

"Aren't you going to open the door for me?"
"Stop undressing me with your eyes"
"Are you always this forward?"
"Are you always like that? Or is it just because I'm around?"
"It's ok, i already like you, you can stop trying to impress me." (Loved this one)

Get the idea? Just slip them here and there, wherever it's appropriate.
 
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jocca said:
just been using it a lot lately. always atleast get the girl to like me now. seems that using it however makes you feel like in a way your trying to prove yourself to them therefore making them the prize. whats everyone else think the most powerful form of seduction is? and do many others out there use it?
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Get off of the mindset of feeling you need to prove your value and focus on displaying your value. They may seem like the same thing on the surface but they are delineated by the manner and the amount of effort you put forth.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Get off of the mindset of feeling you need to prove your value and focus on displaying your value. They may seem like the same thing on the surface but they are delineated by the manner and the amount of effort you put forth.
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Excellent post.

I might add that the most powerful form of Seduction is a NATURAL seduction. A seduction that is built upon you creating your own life and your own desires and going after those desires.

I would tell you to STOP being "****y and funny" and START being "fun". There is a difference. Fun is natural. ****y isn't. Fun is attractive, ****y is repulsive.
 
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