"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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just been using it a lot lately. always atleast get the girl to like me now. seems that using it however makes you feel like in a way your trying to prove yourself to them therefore making them the prize. whats everyone else think the most powerful form of seduction is? and do many others out there use it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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so if its what you live by can you give us just small example of what kind of things youd say when round a hb. just curious is all as i think iv got it pretty much down
 

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jocca said:
so if its what you live by can you give us just small example of what kind of things youd say when round a hb. just curious is all as i think iv got it pretty much down
Just stick it in here and there, bust her balls, it's like a neg, except somewhat more obvious, but more funny.

Just little statements to keep your frame of the prize.

"Aren't you going to open the door for me?"
"Stop undressing me with your eyes"
"Are you always this forward?"
"Are you always like that? Or is it just because I'm around?"
"It's ok, i already like you, you can stop trying to impress me." (Loved this one)

Get the idea? Just slip them here and there, wherever it's appropriate.
 

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jocca said:
just been using it a lot lately. always atleast get the girl to like me now. seems that using it however makes you feel like in a way your trying to prove yourself to them therefore making them the prize. whats everyone else think the most powerful form of seduction is? and do many others out there use it?
Get off of the mindset of feeling you need to prove your value and focus on displaying your value. They may seem like the same thing on the surface but they are delineated by the manner and the amount of effort you put forth.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Vypros

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Get off of the mindset of feeling you need to prove your value and focus on displaying your value. They may seem like the same thing on the surface but they are delineated by the manner and the amount of effort you put forth.
Excellent post.

I might add that the most powerful form of Seduction is a NATURAL seduction. A seduction that is built upon you creating your own life and your own desires and going after those desires.

I would tell you to STOP being "****y and funny" and START being "fun". There is a difference. Fun is natural. ****y isn't. Fun is attractive, ****y is repulsive.
 
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