"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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C+F used out of whack?

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I don't ever use C+F unless the situation seems to fit it.

Can you guys give me many many good examples of what you mostly mean by C+F.

I do it when a girl flirts with me, but I don't know how to do it out of whack to a girl. It feels a bit wrong, so maybe I misunderstand C+F.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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rgeere said:
You might do it natually and not really realize it ...
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Maybe, but I just want to make sure I AM getting it, so I want some examples!!!
 
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all the C+F stuff that i do naturally works great, anytime i try to preplan it, it goes kablooey.

basically, just think a little ****ier than you should, think you are the ****, comment on other people you should do fine.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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find Señor Fingers post in his weapons of mass seduction. He talks about all sorts of different C&F
 
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So everyone knows about C+F and yet nobody can show good examples of how to initiate C+F in ANY conversation?

What if she is not real flirty, how do you force C+F in there?
 
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