"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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C+F used out of whack?

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I don't ever use C+F unless the situation seems to fit it.

Can you guys give me many many good examples of what you mostly mean by C+F.

I do it when a girl flirts with me, but I don't know how to do it out of whack to a girl. It feels a bit wrong, so maybe I misunderstand C+F.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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rgeere said:
You might do it natually and not really realize it ...
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Maybe, but I just want to make sure I AM getting it, so I want some examples!!!
 
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all the C+F stuff that i do naturally works great, anytime i try to preplan it, it goes kablooey.

basically, just think a little ****ier than you should, think you are the ****, comment on other people you should do fine.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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find Señor Fingers post in his weapons of mass seduction. He talks about all sorts of different C&F
 
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So everyone knows about C+F and yet nobody can show good examples of how to initiate C+F in ANY conversation?

What if she is not real flirty, how do you force C+F in there?
 
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